oh hun, it must be so hard right now!

In a perfect world it would be wonderful to hop on a plane, take baby over and do the introductions. But, as others have said, you really need to prioritise what you are going to be doing with the cash that you have.

This may sound horrible - but if they / he wants to see baby, they can help you do it. The responsibility does not lie solely on YOU to provide, care, and nourish baby AND find the fundage for her father's family to meet her.

Use the money in your best interests (fridge, bond, gas/electricity bond etc) - when the time comes that they really want to meet her I am sure they will help you. Do not let that fall on yourself, especially not the first time, as it will always be expected.

Be kind to yourself. Try to focus on the amazing ride you are just about to begin, a life with your new baby! Not worrying about money and plane trips.