Hun, take it from me - it's very very hard to live on clink alone. You need that money in the bank for YOU and baby.

If she doesn't meet her father as an infant, it won't make a difference I promise. There are other ways. At the very least it should be HIM coming out here to see her - not you trekking across the globe babe in arms.

At the end of the day she DOES have a dad, she can still make cards for him, talk on the phone - Skype and webcam. It's not perfect but it's also not up to you to do all the work.

You WILL need that money as a backup - end of story. xoxoxoxo