Brendansmum, I'm so sorry to hear about your ExP's mum and her complete lack of common sense when it comes to looking after B. That must be so frustrating, I know I wouldn't want my Ex's parents looking after Logan if they were like that. I can understand about hating the shared thing, although it hasn't happened here yet, I'm dreading when it does.

I'm feeling quite selfish and feel like if I'm the one doing everything and he has only recently started paying CS (I whole $27 a month which I had to apply for and he got so mad at me for doing without telling him first) then why should he get all the benefits? I guess I'm just mad lately. I wouldn't want to deprive him of seeing Logan but at the same time I certainly don't trust him to adequately care for Logan either. Plus apparently Logan talks about "Damio" (as he calls him) at daycare, what if he were to say something in front of Ex & Ex gets upset and goes off drinking again? Oh well I guess I don't need to worry about it until he wants to see Logan again.

I went to the police station today but they basically said there is nothing they can do because Ex hasn't actually threatened to hurt me and he's living so far away. Apparently Ex is considering moving to Sydney, or so his dad told me, which just freaks me out even more. I am feeling kind of down today since I feel like I am overreacting. I am just sick of him harassing me.

Divvy, how are things going with you? How is the telephone dating?