Wow Dee things have certainly moved on for you. Congratulations. I'd love to get to that stage with XH but I don't know if we ever will... he's so tight with money! Refused to allow the boys to go to a (certain) school whilst we were together, but now we're separated, it would be okay, as long as I paid for ALL of it! I don't really care, as long as they go to (certain) school, and I presumed I'd be paying for it anyway, so that's all hunky dory with me!

Sorry to hear of idiot XP's behaviour, Brendansmum, hopefully everything sorts outself out soon.