Oh Widdly. Sorry I didn't see this post earlier to offer you some support.

I don't have advice for you except you are amazingly strong and have been my inspiration, you owe it to yourself and Archie to do what you think is best. Don't let nonghead put the guilt trip on you. Sometimes there is just too much dirty water under the bridge to work it out successfully. I'm afraid it sounds like too little, too late for him.

But at the end of the day, whatever you choose to do know that the BB girls will be here to support you every step of the way.

I would get the CS collected for you, it is one less thing that you have to worry about. As for rent, he can contribute! I bet he isn't going to contribute to the electricity/phone and whatever other utility bills you have when they come in. Get used to it buddy, Widdly is not going to be here to mother you and hold your hand because you suddenly realise what a nong head you are!

xx