So I finally ordered and paid for the DNA test and let him know its here. THEN he decides to turn around and say that he's been back to his solicitor and spoken with CSA and they;ve both advised him not to do it. He says that my current partner is legally responsible for my son. My lawyer said that no he's not he's just some guy I've lived with and owned a house with. He's asked me not to contact him again. Again its all about him, his gf, their future kids they dont have but basically him. I just feel so sorry for my poor lil guy because no one wants to be a Dad. No one is thinking about what this will do to him. I really think that I have no choice but to go to court to fight for my little guys rights. The toughest thing as I keep saying is what do I tell my little man when he asks why he's not there. It breaks my heart.