As the mother of a daughter who will soon start growing pubic hair, I want her to know that hair on a vagina is completely normal. I trim occasionally and check my bikini line if I am going to wear a bikini, but other than that I'm natural. I have had Brazilian's in the past and I found it exceptionally painful - not to mention awkward! My DH doesn't care either way, although if they get to the point that they need to be plaited he might mention it!