Do what you like! And please don't feel judged! I don't think it's right to pass judgement. I don't think it's wrong at all. My sentiments are similar to PN. If you want to do it for you do. But not because you feel pressured. Your body your choice. If that means you want to dye it pink and shape it into a love heart it's totally your call. It's not wrong or gross. Normal is what you want. I do take issue with it being implied that is what is expected. That's all.