Oh honey, I am so deeply sorry to hear of your loss . This should never happen to anyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. Rest in eternal peace little man. Riley was definitely with you that day at the cemetary, how very special hun.
Beata xxx
Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of your precious boy.
You're right, no mother should have to walk away empty handed after giving birth, it's just not right and so, so unfair.
May you rest in peace little angel.
xxx
Samcougar, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for sharing yours and Riley's story with us here.
There are many supportive organisations that are around to help you through this difficult time. Please don't be afraid to reach out and to talk more, if that's what you feel you need to do.
I loved hearing about that butterfly. That is one of those special moments that you can treasure in your heart.
Know that we are here for you if you need to talk, and I wish you all the best as you return to work.
Thankyou all so very much! It's comforting to know there are some wonderful people out there who really care!
Thankyou for all of your support and kind words. We will get through this and Riley will forever be in our hearts. We can only hope that this will never happen to anyone else but sadly it does, we never heard anything about stillbirths untill we lost our little Riley, but as we found out after it happened it has touched so many people close to us, they just don't talk about it untill something like this happens.
Our Riley will be talked about and remembered fondly because he's not just a sastistic, he our first son and always will be.
Thankyou all once again.
I'm so sorry Samcougar - my heart is breaking for you. I'm glad you can find some comfort from the ladies on here. Goodbye Riley, you must have been far too beautiful for this world. Take care of yourselves, I wish you all the strength you need to grieve for your beautiful baby boy. xx
Samcougar, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious son Riley. You and your DH will be in my prayers How very beautiful that your son was communicating with you through the butterfly. He is truly free and at peace. Take care of yourself.
Reading your story was like reliving my own all over again my first baby, my daughter Isabel was born sleeping 9 weeks ago at 30wks and 5days. It was like you were putting words to my feelings. So please no that you are not alone.
If you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here and like you I work at a supermarket. I went back 3weeks after Isabel was born and it still hurts me to this day. So if you need any advise or just someone that knows what you are going through and will be going through just let me know.
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