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thread: 35 weeks and 1 day

  1. #19
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
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    my heart goes out to you samcougar - no mother should ever have to go through the pain you are feeling right now

  2. #20
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    Sep 2008
    Melbourne
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    I am so sorry for your loss SamCougar, my heart is breaking for you and your husband.

    Rest in peace beautiful Riley, and may you always watch over your mother and father x

  3. #21
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    Aug 2008
    Melbourne
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    SamCougar - I am so saddened by your and your DH's loss.

  4. #22
    2014 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    Oh honey, I am so deeply sorry to hear of your loss . This should never happen to anyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband. Rest in eternal peace little man. Riley was definitely with you that day at the cemetary, how very special hun.
    Beata xxx

  5. #23
    BellyBelly Member

    Mar 2007
    Perth
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    I'm so sorry SamCougar & totally devastated for you & your DH

  6. #24
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    Oct 2006
    Adelaide, SA
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    Words can not express how sorry I am for the loss of your precious boy.
    You're right, no mother should have to walk away empty handed after giving birth, it's just not right and so, so unfair.
    May you rest in peace little angel.
    xxx

  7. #25
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    Mar 2006
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    I am so incredbily sorry for the loss of your precious son, Riley James.
    May he rest in peace and play with the other angels.

  8. #26
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    Sep 2006
    Beaudesert, QLD
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    i am so so so very sorry for your loss, words cant express how sorry i am

    rest in peace Riley James, your mummy and daddy love you very much and you will forever be in there hearts

    samcougar please be gentle on youself, if you need to talk, cry ,vent, we will be here to help you through it

    take care

  9. #27
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    Oct 2006
    Sydney
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    Samcougar, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for sharing yours and Riley's story with us here.
    There are many supportive organisations that are around to help you through this difficult time. Please don't be afraid to reach out and to talk more, if that's what you feel you need to do.
    I loved hearing about that butterfly. That is one of those special moments that you can treasure in your heart.
    Know that we are here for you if you need to talk, and I wish you all the best as you return to work.

  10. #28
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    Oct 2007
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    I am so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine the pain you are going through. Riley will always be with you I am sure of it.

  11. #29
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    Sep 2008
    Gold Coast
    127

    Your beautiful butterfly boy will be with you always.

    I pray that you and your DH receive all of the love and support you need at this time.

    Blessings and strength to you both

  12. #30
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    Jun 2007
    Brisbane
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    My heart goes out to you and your DH on the tragic loss of your beautiful baby boy.
    Take care, xx

  13. #31
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    Apr 2009
    NSW, Australia
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    Thankyou all so very much! It's comforting to know there are some wonderful people out there who really care!
    Thankyou for all of your support and kind words. We will get through this and Riley will forever be in our hearts. We can only hope that this will never happen to anyone else but sadly it does, we never heard anything about stillbirths untill we lost our little Riley, but as we found out after it happened it has touched so many people close to us, they just don't talk about it untill something like this happens.
    Our Riley will be talked about and remembered fondly because he's not just a sastistic, he our first son and always will be.
    Thankyou all once again.

  14. #32
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    Aug 2006
    178

    I'm so sorry Samcougar - my heart is breaking for you. I'm glad you can find some comfort from the ladies on here. Goodbye Riley, you must have been far too beautiful for this world. Take care of yourselves, I wish you all the strength you need to grieve for your beautiful baby boy. xx

  15. #33
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    Sep 2008
    Where the sun shines
    322

    Samcougar, I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious son Riley. You and your DH will be in my prayers How very beautiful that your son was communicating with you through the butterfly. He is truly free and at peace. Take care of yourself.

  16. #34
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    N.S.W.
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.

    Reading your story was like reliving my own all over again my first baby, my daughter Isabel was born sleeping 9 weeks ago at 30wks and 5days. It was like you were putting words to my feelings. So please no that you are not alone.
    If you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here and like you I work at a supermarket. I went back 3weeks after Isabel was born and it still hurts me to this day. So if you need any advise or just someone that knows what you are going through and will be going through just let me know.

  17. #35
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    Sunny QLD!
    720

    Oh samcougar, i have tears streaming down my face!

    I am just so so so very sorry.... for you and DH..

    Oh i dont know whatelse to say... but i am so sorry...

    Much love and light healing to you and your husband...

    Last edited by Papillon; April 17th, 2009 at 10:39 PM.

  18. #36
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    Jul 2007
    melb
    8,498

    oh I am sooooo sorry to read you story, I have tears streaming down my face.

    The message that Riley sent you via the Butterfly is gorgeous and so touching.

    May he RIP with the other angels

    Huge hugs to you and be strong

    Hope you find support and comfort in BB its a great place.

    xoxox

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