Oh my goodness Dianne I cannot grasp the ignorance of this person... I am so incredibly sorry that she was so tactless and - stupid! (I was looking for a more eloquent word but couldn't find one that fitted)

What you have done is beautiful - for your beautiful little boy. Isn't it interesting how so many in our society cannot see the beauty in all children not just the ones that fit a certain criteria...

I send you my love darling woman - and a hug - it must have felt so confronting to hear those thoughtless and ignorant words.