How do I accept this?

[skybie]

I feel so bad admitting this. But our next baby will be our last and we want a boy so so much. Guess we just have to hope that the universe is kind to us. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's felt like this

[ferrals5]

Hun i had 3 boys before i lost my 1st daughter and i was devastated that i would never have a girl when i was pregnant again deep down i was desperate for a girl i dont know why maybe to heal the pain not a replacement for abbi but a girl to just make it feel like we finished what we started before in the end i was so worried and stressed that something would go wrong i just said to whoever it is that decides our fate that i would be happy with a healthy baby no matter what and i was ok with that.
If you do have another girl you will love her just the same the minute you look into their little face you fall in love with them.
I hope all goes well with your next pregnancy.

[mummydreamer]

I feel so bad admitting this. But our next baby will be our last and we want a boy so so much. Guess we just have to hope that the universe is kind to us. I'm glad I'm not the only one who's felt like this

of course you're not hun, not by a long shot.......it's hard when we feel this way, we can't change or explain why we feel this way, but we do....i hope, really really hope that you get the little boy you long for. I think Ferrals said it right, not that you would have a replacement for Jack, but that it would help heal you, it would heal you to have another boy.

i feel that way about having another baby....just after what happened, i feel like i can't end that way, having another baby would be healing for me.....i think because i already have a pigeon pair, though, im not too strssed about having a particular sex (although i totally understand the need for that sex) but just....in fact for me, it's the opposite. i almost want another girl because i would find it hard to look into another baby boy, but i know its different for everyone.....

just to ask, what's the shettles method??? sorry,im a bit clueless with things like that. but i hope it works for you again this time round xoxoxox