i think the most important thing is that you know its safe here to be open and honest with your feelings. This has got to help when most people IRL will just expect you to be perfectly happy with either sex and infact probably want you to forget or atleast not want to talk about Jack anymore.


If it helps we werent 'trying' for a boy but DS was conceived right on O whereas all the other pregnancies have been whenever in my cycle!

Hugs hun.