Skybie - ahhh sweetie..... the grief journey is so very demanding.... ladybirdflies said it pretty much perfectly..... I know how tough where you are right now is, and how it just feels so personal.... but most of the time it's not. People are not perfect and they have absolutely no idea how to navigate the recently bereaved. They are scared to hurt you, but in all honestly pretty much everything is going to hurt you right now. And right now it seems the world is full of pregnant women or lil babies....

So how to deal with it? Well a couple of options -

Ignore them or just distance yourself from them. It works for some people. Never did for me really. Well it did for strangers, but not for family and friends. My grief was a time to have the support of those I cherished, even if it was hard for me at times.

Talk to them and tell them that them not telling you hurt and you'd rather them just talk to you, and yes you might cry when you see them, and yes you might cry when they talk about their pregnancy, but that's ok, and that your crying is just how you connect with your Jack.

Don't talk to them, and just muddle through, best you can.

It's hard for them too now. I imagine that they might ( if they are genuine people) feel so guilty that they are pregnant and your Jack is gone too soon. Well that's how I would and have felt.

No one can stop the hurt my blossom, but we can be here to comfort you and help you through.