Oh Sara, I didn't have a bad outlook on Skye at all (sorry Skye if you felt that, btw). And you're right I have no idea what it is like to grieve the loss of a baby, but I was just saying here's the other side of the fence. KWIM? I get the not being able to be around pregnant women completely. I get annoyed/jealous/upset because I'm not there yet.. so I cannot even begin to fathom how you ladies feel having been there, but not being able to hold your baby I am so sorry anyone has to go through that.

Of course it would hurt to have a close friend/family member being pregnant after you have just lost one. I was just raising the point (NOT justifying Skye's step-sisters behaviour AT ALL. Totally foul) - but initially, before she behaved like a beast, maybe she WAS protecting your feelings by not telling you she was TTC then pregnant? I guess that's all I was trying to say.

I still don't understand however, why my friend thinks it's ok to dictate my life. I get that she's grieving, and no, I don't know what that feels like but I'm also not stupid. I've seen how people react, I've read some stories here and it breaks my heart. But she doesn't get to tell me I myself cannot have children. It's just frustrating I don't bring up my TTC with her at all. She just asks me if we are still trying, and if I say yes she chucks a tanty..