how do u deal with people who are close to u being pregnant?

[~Hestia~]

[skybie]

just to update, i msged her and said, i would have preffered to hear it from you, im hurting right now so please dont be suprised if you dont see us for a little while.
She lost her nut, asked me if it would make me happy if she got rid of it so i could have a baby first and basically carried on like a little child. my step brother deleted me off fb and his girlfriend put a very very hurtful fb status up about me.
i've written them off, i dont have time or energy for games

[~Hestia~]

Oh Skybie, that's terrible Sounds like they're being very immature. I'm shaking my head that some people can be so insensitive.

You've done nothing wrong in sending a msg I'm lost for words!

[skybie]

i just wanted her to know that i knew and how i was feeling, i didnt antagonise the reaction she gave me in any way. i always end up being the bad person in these situations, even though i havent done a single thing wrong.
If she thought she'd done the right thing by getting pregnant so soon she wouldnt have reacted the way she did, so she knows what shes done isnt right

[toomanyshoes]

You aren't the bad person

[dory]

Sky - you did the right thing, they are being childish. Rise above it, just like you are doing. You are far more the bigger person.... and keep it that way. I am sorry that they weren't adults about it. Hugs for hard times sweetie.

[RhiChiChi]

I am lost for words over the reaction from your step sister (in paticular), step brother & his gf. Even if your step sister felt all of those things, there is no need to say it out loud - she could have taken a more respectful approach and acknowledged your feeling in all of this. Glad you have written them off, they sound horrible.