Today has been a week since Angel's Funeral and now more than ever i feel so alone like there is not only my Angel missing from my arms but its like cause the funeral has happened everyone thinks thats it.
I just want to be able to talk to people but cant get into chat yet.
i feel guilty for the pain my partner is going through.
i guess i'm really just having a bad day and didn't know what else to do but post something.
I couldn't read and not respond. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful Angel. Welcome to BB. I am sorry that it's through such sad circumstances. You'll find lots of support here.
Please do not apologise, our community is here to rally around you at times like these, so hopefully you'll feel a little less alone. I wish I could take away even just some of the ache in your arms and your heart, I'm so sorry for the loss of your Angel
Hun, i'm sorry you are doing it so tough. Maybe we can give you a hand to get your post count up?
Have you been in contact with Bonnie Babes or SIDS & Kids or any other organisations. I know they have telephone support services as well as on line support.
Please don't appologise; you're going through so much. I know there are support groups you can talk to, buy I dont know who they are.
Please be gentle with yourself, your pain is going to be raw for who knows how long, and that's ok. Big hugs x
Oh honey, you are feeling so many emotions now, please don't angst yourself over apologising. Unfortunately there are too many women on here who understand your pain, grief and sorrow that I"m sure you'll find the support that you need.
It's more than ok to be feeling like you are, regardless of how long ago the funeral was.
I really hope that you find some comfort here with us.
Feeling alone is just no good, so I'm glad you're posting here.
I can only repeat what others have said about contacting SIDS for someone to talk to- their 24 hour phoneline is staffed by parents who have experienced loss as well, so you will be speaking to someone who can relate to what you're going through. You can also get free one-on-one counselling.
I am not looking forward to when my DH returns to work, fills me with fear at being alone, and how will I fill my days when I had planned on filling them with being a mother?....So I am feeling for you and you are also in my thoughts .
Thankyou to all that responded it's all just so fresh i feel like i'm on a roller coaster with more downs than ups though.
No i havn't been in contact with anyone and noone has been in contact with me.
atm i have no home phone that i can ring anyone on so thats why i have been searching then net and been quiet unsucsessful.
So now i have to just wait and try to get my posts up enough so i can go on the chat room here i just hope i can do it sooner rather than later.
Bearmum- My partner has been back at work for 2 weeks it was so hard watching him drive out the driveway. Each day i hate watching him go but once he is gone i can start the countdown till he is back plus he is available any time i need him during the day. I won't lie and say you will be fine all i can say is it will be hard but we have already dealt with so much its just another thing we have to do.
Hi, we are always here if you need to talk, you don't need tomgominto chat, just pst a thread on any topic and there will be plenty of ladies there for you.
Bb ladies have helped me keep my sanity many times
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i feel so alone
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