Thankyou to all that responded it's all just so fresh i feel like i'm on a roller coaster with more downs than ups though.

No i havn't been in contact with anyone and noone has been in contact with me.
atm i have no home phone that i can ring anyone on so thats why i have been searching then net and been quiet unsucsessful.

So now i have to just wait and try to get my posts up enough so i can go on the chat room here i just hope i can do it sooner rather than later.

Bearmum- My partner has been back at work for 2 weeks it was so hard watching him drive out the driveway. Each day i hate watching him go but once he is gone i can start the countdown till he is back plus he is available any time i need him during the day. I won't lie and say you will be fine all i can say is it will be hard but we have already dealt with so much its just another thing we have to do.