Oh honey, you are feeling so many emotions now, please don't angst yourself over apologising. Unfortunately there are too many women on here who understand your pain, grief and sorrow that I"m sure you'll find the support that you need.
It's more than ok to be feeling like you are, regardless of how long ago the funeral was.
I really hope that you find some comfort here with us.
Feeling alone is just no good, so I'm glad you're posting here.
I can only repeat what others have said about contacting SIDS for someone to talk to- their 24 hour phoneline is staffed by parents who have experienced loss as well, so you will be speaking to someone who can relate to what you're going through. You can also get free one-on-one counselling.
I am not looking forward to when my DH returns to work, fills me with fear at being alone, and how will I fill my days when I had planned on filling them with being a mother?....So I am feeling for you and you are also in my thoughts .
Thankyou to all that responded it's all just so fresh i feel like i'm on a roller coaster with more downs than ups though.
No i havn't been in contact with anyone and noone has been in contact with me.
atm i have no home phone that i can ring anyone on so thats why i have been searching then net and been quiet unsucsessful.
So now i have to just wait and try to get my posts up enough so i can go on the chat room here i just hope i can do it sooner rather than later.
Bearmum- My partner has been back at work for 2 weeks it was so hard watching him drive out the driveway. Each day i hate watching him go but once he is gone i can start the countdown till he is back plus he is available any time i need him during the day. I won't lie and say you will be fine all i can say is it will be hard but we have already dealt with so much its just another thing we have to do.
Hi, we are always here if you need to talk, you don't need tomgominto chat, just pst a thread on any topic and there will be plenty of ladies there for you.
Bb ladies have helped me keep my sanity many times
Oh, that must be so hard not having a home phone at the moment!
If you are isolated without a car as well, a counsellor from SIDS maybe able to do some home visits. I did read in their pamphlet that in some circumstances they can do this. Guess it depends on where you live as well.
I'm thinking of enrolling in a tafe arts course for the start of next year- I don't have a job to return to, and I know I need something to fill my days.
Is there a community college, or some kinda course or group near you that you could join? Anything would do really, just to fill in that void.. xx
Oh hun, I am so so so sorry that you have lost your Angel, it is such an unfair and cruel thing to happen and I wanted to offer you massive I did see you in the chat last night hun and do hope you can get in soon but as someone has mentioned pour your heart out by starting a thread because there are so many gorgeous people on BB that will offer you support/ advice and just a shoulder to cry on. Please do not even apologose for saying how you feel, you need to do that to help you heal, sweetheart. I wish I could say or do something to take away your pain but all I can do is offer you big big warm :hugs:
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