Take pics of them bathing, weighing, dressing baby. Encourage them to get a professioanl photographer to come to the hospital- I wish I had done that. There is actually a national group of photographers who do this for free- my brain just can't remember what they're called! Wish my hospy had their info, i only heard about them after.
The Australian Community Of Child Photographers I didn't know about them until after, either, but we were able to get someone sent out to Ianto's funeral. (I know some people here might know the trouble I've since had in getting those photos, but I assure you, it was just that one photographer. Everyone else is pis$y at her too.)

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