We knew we would be ready before ds was born, dh felt like he was finished and the toll of having early babies and bed rest was exhausting for me. Our gp suggested we wait 12 months as dh was only 33 at the time so I had an implanon implant as I struggle with the pill. We still felt the same later on and dh had the referral and appointment made as soon as the 12 months were up.