We knew it's what we wanted to do even before ds was born even if he had been a girl. The toll of those last few weeks not only one but our family being on bed rest from 34 weeks with constant contractions was exhausting so I knew I wasn't going to do it again. Dh agreed and we asked our gp at 4 weeks but he recommend we wait a year, so I had the implant put in for a year, we never wavered and dh had the referral right on 12 months. We are both happy with the decision we were youngish at 33 and 34 but we have been together since we were 15. We haven't regretted it at all ds is now 3.5