J got banned from the school bus a while back for really stupid behaviour. He was banned for a whole term. We told him to write a letter to the bus company and cc to his school. He wrote it (fairly well) but never sent it so we just let him continue to be banned from the bus and he had to walk or ride to school. I don't think he cared too much though. Hopefully your DD cares more than he did/does!
Can't make them care, can you I think she would but just casue she wouldn't want to walk, lol. FWIW I think it's good that he wrote the letter anyway... I guess it's about teaching them consequences where you can isn't it...
speaking of which one suggestion I had was to let her drink so much (at home) that she would be vomiting & really sick & then she wouldn't want to do it anymore. Which I guess is trying to show consequences, but still I dunno about that one

Thanks Pan & Dianne