I agree with you Tanya, my DD is 15 and I don't let her drink. She is angry at me cause she wants to have a 16th party and I said fine but no one under 18 will be drinking because I am responsible for them while they are in my care- she got really upset and said she wouldn't have a party then cause it would be too embarrassing. I didn't drink til I was 17, maybe i was a slow starter LOL but I don't want her getting into situations she isn't mature enough to cope with.