Thank you everyone.... on the subject of her friends at school, she has had difficulties over the past year. She feels she doesn't fit in 'cause she's a little altrnative ... She has a lot of friends but none wh o are close at school, which makes the whole bf thing worse 'cause now he's the only one who understands her. He has grt diff himself with friends , it's like this she's his whole world and vise versa! I know this is a foul and feral age and it could be a whole lot worse, she's still doing ok at school, she's being honest about where she is , doesn't sneak out or lie about stuff ... I just hate being the enemy all the time.