Don't hate me Miss B but you live like a queen ma'am!

Have you thought of signing her up for volunteer work? If she can't appreciate how good she has it maybe she should be giving up her time to help others.

I think you're in a rock and a hard place. Maybe get back to the basics, praise her for teeny tiny things and see if that helps.

Without sounding like a 90 yr old man if only we could let them live a day in our lives at the same time hey?