Sweetheart it sounds as though you are having a withdrawal bleed from the pill. When you stop taking it everything becomes classified as "normal". Once you start 'thinking' you are pregnant your body will play tricks on your mind... it is quite common with women trying to conceieve too. The hunger, the weeing, the mood swings, etc...

The thing is, a lot of early pregnancy symptoms are consistent with that time of the month - the cramping and bloating. So now that you are bleeding I would say it is probably like your 'period'. Try not to stress to much (I know it is hard), but you will get through this. If it turns out you are pregnant you will make great mummy with or without your boyfriend to support you, ok?

Does your mum know you are having sex? If she already knows there is no harm in sharing this with her because she might be able to help you... Even when our mothers feel disappointed in us they are generally still there for us while we need help... and reprimand us later. If she knows you are having sex, she KNOWS that pregnancy is a possible outcome... contraceptives are not 100% reliable...

Good luck xox