Thanks for reply. The parties they are talking about dont have any parents there, its the local kids and I know most of them. My son skates with them and goes to rap comps with most of them. They are not the kind of gang that sit and drink tea, they are skaters and rap dancers and like freedom. They are good kids though not into trouble or anything with the law, they drink which is something I dont like in teenagers, as they do not have the mentality in knowing how to cope with a situation if someone was to spike there drink or what not. Scary stuff at that age, or they may get drunk and go wild not knowing how to handle there grog, thats what worries me.

My two tried to convince me last night too, but I just am not sure, there is a party coming up this weekedn and I am leaning towards no, but they both said how can you learn to trust us if you do not allow us to prove it to oyu, and I see there point in that respect but its not them I worry about and trying to tell them that is making me feel like I am judgeing their friends. Its in a house, no parnet as they are rich kids and parnets go away every second weekend, and the kid that lives there is Brain and he is 17 and a half, ben friend with my two for 12 years, so I just dont know.