These days kids dont have to have a celebration to have a party, if therev is music, food and heaps of people its a party lol. But it is knew for us because my kids have never been to it.

I guess there comes a time when we need to trust our kids . Its only two streets away form here. I might let joshy go I think, I cant lock him up forever and he needs to know I do trust him, there is going to be s first time for all the things that worry me, so if I can give him the benifit of the doubt this time and he does well I know my job a as parent was well done, if he stuffs up I bring that up next time he asks me and he will know why I say no. I wish my kids were the play in there bedrooms kind of kids with a handle full of friends, but they are very out going and know everyone, so its harder for me.