How would we know? I dont think his parents have abused him. But he started oddly after the break up when he started hanging around his dad. But wouldnt he be old enough to tell us something?
We have told my sister to send him to a psychologist - but she thinks his just being "selfish" that she is showing him all her love and affection that he needs and its just him tricking the family coz he wants more. I told her that maybe the "love and affection" shes given him isnt as enough as it would be to his brothers maybe, that each kids different and needs more/less.
After the break up he has
- been arrested but not charged for trying to steal a bike
-skipped school
-suspeneded from school
-he was caught by security trying to sell or assist in selling a stolen watch at westfields
-The sexual interest
-saying violent things like - to his brother he grabs the bread knife and says how would it feel if i did this or that . When we say anything he says im only joking
-He stole a kitchen knife (or his friend did) and they walk around slashing fences and walls in the street
-He steals money from his mother (we know his done this once but the other times mum and i are sussed that my sister is lying - )
I was abused by my neighbour when i was 8/9 - but i did tell my other sister about it (i didnt know what he was doing and asked her if this action was ok) - if he is or was abused wwouldnt he say something?
He comes to mums place, just so she can play with his hair while he falls asleep on the couch - he has never ever received any love or affection by his parents.
Sorry im just full - and its quite long.
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