Bec, maybe we can discuss this elsewhere: I have a lot of male friends and the pressure for them was so much less. Yes, there have been malicious rumours, but they just got me or another one of our girlfriends to deny them.

Soul, I know plenty of guys who didn't pressure their girlfriends - including some I have dated. There is nothing wrong with any of them! They are all healthy and happy; a few are married with children. Only one is single and he still lets me know his dating dilemmas, it's good to keep in touch with the single, celibate world sometimes.