Jo I would love to preserve many things in them till they are adults but the sad thing is when they are going to school they hear so many differenet stories of sex and what its like, who's doing it, how many they have had, "Innosense" lost! And then they meet that boy !!! That boy who makes there heart beat a thousand times per second, that boy who makes all those wonderful butterlfies go crazy deep in the pit of ther tummies, and there hormones are on holidays!!!


Wether its talked about at home or not, they know about it, they think about it, they day dream about it............the moment they understand what sex is, they are curious and want to know how it feels, must be good if everyone is doing it.........I wonder what its like!!!!!!

Unfortunatley my innosense led me to teenage pregnancy at 16 because my mother never thought it was the right time to educate me and give me options, I want better than that for my own daughters kwim?

But jo I so get you and wish it could be like that in this day and age, unless we lock em up and not share them with the rest of the world, we have a chance, but if we allow them to grow and explore the world and themselves then sadly we dont have control over there every move and there every thought. I mean they do have sex in toilets at school, they do have sex at the back of the bus, they do have sex, at the movies unless mama is there watching, unless mamma doenst allow her the benafit of the doubt to not be around a boy and trust in her, which then leads to more problems.


Oh if the world was so different or if we as mothers are just able to talk to them more and give them options should they so need them!