No sex is best till emotionally ready, but even then are we are ready for that first time and what affects is has on us, if you say yes then wholy grail your amazing! You cant teach someone how they will feel the fist time, it is impossible.

And Ryn if she still wanted to have sex even after your whys"? What then?

I had my first at 16 then had Chloe at 18 so she understands how hard it was, she is not in a rush for sex, but I still wanted her to know about the options of contraception, and I will not feel guilty for that.

No ones actually answering the question with a answer. lol because its a hard one, and we cannot predict anything for the furure till your child "IS" at that age, you can teach till the cows come home but there is no 100% garuntee that your child will not be haivng sex as a teenager.