Hm I agree with those issues as well and never said they do not get talked about, none of you have any idea what we talk about here but its obvious enough that she's listened to cause again

"SHES NOT HAVING SEX"! doesnt want to yet!!!! I am repeating myself over an dover here saying that we talk abot it and I let her know that if she is going to jump into it, no thats not a persmission from me by the way, thats been protective about her not getting pregnant and diseases, that there is contraseption out there to use.

Anyway my daughter has been dumped loads of times, she doenst end up a emotional wreck over it to the point I got to get her a councellor, or I am classed as not seeing her BIg stuff bigger than the sex itself! I understand all that, but that still doenst mean I should not discuss sex with her.


So since some of you feel you know it all about teenage girls I will ask you this-


If you daughter comes to you one day, shock horror if it be your daughter, and says to you-

"My boyfriend and I have discussed sex and are going to do it" what will you say to her? And keep in mind she will go do this regardless of what you say, wether or not you think you have raised her the right way. Are you still not going to let her n the pill to be safe? or r u going to be ever so trusting that you have more say so than her boyfriend with her and she will be a good girl?

Yes I too feel I have raised strong indepedent children/girls especially but the moment she got the boy of her dreams I saw the changes grandually in her, and its to be expected they cannot be the person you wnat for the rest of there lives, they do grow and become sexually aware.

Its the mothers who dont see it coming that end up with the daughter who is pregnant and are so shocked because they swore blind there daughter would never do such a thing. I wont hide anything form my daughters I want them to know they are coverd and can look after themselves.

And yes the emotional drama of it all, is always there and in "Our" home open for discussion!