munchy: I'm so sorry--I know how disappointed you must feel. And we don't think you're silly for thinking you were preg. You've been attuned to your body intensely for a long time now. It's okay to make a mistake--we don't hold it against you. I just hope you get some relief from your sadness because I know it's been rough.

And yeah--bad timing. A few weeks ago my health insurance company sent me a booklet through the mail about how to take care of yourself when you're pregnant (somehow in all that beaurocracy, the info about my MC must have got lost or something). Needless to say, I was ticked off, but I didn't call the company or anything--couldn't see the point.