oh my god munchy

you have just made me the happiest person right now, i had started a thread in the wedding section and told the girls the same thing and asked for there opinions and most of them think its not a good idea to ask them to pay for the meals i was about to start thinking about cancelling cos i thought if there are so many people that didnt like the idea then how will my guests feel and i dont want them to think i am cheap iukwim

but after reading your post and hearing about all the stuff you have done, that has made me feel better

i was thinking that they could pay for there meal i will pay for drinks, my girls are paying for there dresses and my gift to them i will pay for there hair and make up, the boys will be paying for theres ( renting them) i am borrowing flower girls dress, i am getting a plane cake from a cake shop and putting black ribbon on the bottom of the 3 layers, our wedding cars are free as there friends of ours that have the same sort of car as ours ( clubsports) we are hoping to get the flowers done at mates rates as my sister knows the lady at the flower shop, but yeah there just some of my plans, i will get on here when i have more time and tell you all about it, but you have no idea how happy you have made me right now, i feel alot better about asking them to pay for there meals now

thanks hun

so happy that your feeling better sweetie