Sophia,

What your are feeling is very normal. Remeber that is has only been two weeks, although I am sure that it feels longer. Slowly, day by day it does get easier. I had a miscariage at 9 weeks in early November, and I am still grieving, but realising that it will take time and it is different for everyone is what keeps me going.

As for DH, mine was exactly the same. My DH works away for 2 months at a time O/S on a barge in the middle of the ocean, with the only contact being through email. He was away when we found out that I was pregnant and I had to tell him via email that I had M/C as well. He came home ASAP, but was it was never real for him he found it hard to relate to me and what I was experiencing. He could not understand why I was still crying, did not want to go out, did not want to go back to work. His background is science and he said that he knows that it is imperfect science and there was a chance we could lose it. For us women it is different, we bond with this baby of ours from the minute that we see those two lines, we plan thier future, get excited to buy those maternity clothes and plan the next 9 months of our lives, only to have it taken away so soon.

Take care of ourself, and remeber that all these lovely women can relate to what you are going through and help you through these trying times.

Tracey