OK first of all yes it is possible to get post natal depression after a miscarriage, however you are experiencing what a lot of women suffer soon after a m/c and hopefully your symptoms will subside.

I m/c 4 weeks ago and am still experiencing mood swings which I am then taking out on my DF. I feel he isn't being attentive enough, even though he is probably acting the same as he did before the pg. For the short time I was pg he was overly protective and very very attentive and I miss this. He does not understand why I'm acting this way and tells me to stop blaming the m/c - it can't be still affecting me now - but I know it is.

I too have feelings of failure - I've spent years trying to get pregnant and when I do I can't hang on to it. I am restarting the whole investigation process now so that gives me hope but also added pressure.

My little dog has been hanging around me all the time since the m/c so I understand what you mean about your pets being there for you. I wake up every morning with my fluffy girl on my pillow - she always used to sleep on my DF's pillow - but it's like she knows I need her with me right now.

If you are ttc then I'd avoid the medication if it's at all possible. Get your feelings out there whenever possible, use this forum as much as you can. We will always be here to listen to your feelings, even when your husband doesn't want to hear about it. He no doubt loves you dearly but just doesn't know how to cope with the situation.