heart_healings, my heart breaks for you. So much pain comes about as a result of a miscarriage and, as has been stated, it has a very different impact on the men in our lives. I agree that it is very important to sit down with your fiance and try to talk to him about how he is feeling about the loss. He may feel guilty, if you had sex after falling pregnant he might blame himself for the loss for example. (My DH is reluctant to have sex now that I'm pg because he's worried about hurting the baby)

It may be that your fiance needs to attend counselling with you in order to open up. Your counsellor will be able to help you both a lot more if you are both there seeking help to change and understand what is happening. WIth marriage on the cards, this is perhaps even more important.

I wish you both all the best and hope that you're able to work through things and find the happiness you had together before losing your precious baby. Your love and support for each other is what is most important now.