Page 9 of 11 FirstFirst ... 7891011 LastLast
Results 145 to 162 of 183

Thread: Trying to Conceive after Loss or Miscarriage ~ June 08 #3

  1. #145

    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    South Australia
    Posts
    522

    Default

    Hi pbstar sooooo good to hear from you, how are you going....I hope your'e bding lots and lots...gotta catch that eggie, im this cycle ends in a BFP for you hun, you deserve it! AFM - I just dont know whats going on, just after I posted I went to the loo and when I wiped I had very very light pick discharge?????? (no blood, just seemed like pink tinged water) The same as when I was 6 weeks pg with ds. I am sooooo sure im not pg, but I just dont get whats going on! Maybe I should do another test, but im postive it will be negative, cause all my pg symptoms stopped when I m/c. They just seemed to have started up again 2 weeks later though which is weird. Whats got me most confused is why I would have ov so early and why my bb's hurt so much so soon after the m/c. Ill have to keep you posted on this one, im sure it will all work itself out, I know after m/c your body can do weird things, but cause it was so early (only 4.5 weeks) I was thinking that my body would just get straight back on track cause really it was just like a slightly late AF?????

    Who knows, Im definatley a weird one !

    Thankyou for the welcome back, im soooo glad to be back. Let me know how your'e going hun....im so glad we are cycle buddies....even in my cycle is playing dirty tricks on me

    Issy


  2. #146

    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Sydney :)
    Posts
    317

    Default

    issy and van: welcome back! havent heard (read!!!) from you for ages! good to hear your both well...

    van: good to see that AF was mild..hope the herbs are worth it in the end!

    issy: its soooo frustrating when your body just does things and we have no idea whats going on! hope it all accumulates in a great big BFP at the end

    hello everyone else, especially all you lovely preggers girls!!!!

  3. #147

    Join Date
    May 2008
    Location
    North side, Brisbane
    Posts
    754

    Default

    Welcome back Easha. This is for you

    WTH - Keep going strong. Your bloods look good.

    Ruthie - I have just messaged you on face book. Let me know if you don't get it - that will mean I have messaged the wrong person.

    Toccara - That sucks. We aren't allowed to smoke at any clubs, pubs, or casinos over here. Maybe you should move to Aus and join us?? You go girl, if someone does the wrong thing by you - do what you have to! I doubt you'll find many smokers in this thread! That unlimited text and internet on your cell sounds awesome. I will have to resist though or I will never do anything else and I will become a BB hermit Maybe you just had a weird cycle and you are Oing now??

    KL - I think they have pretty much prooven that ultrasounds are safe. They recon it's just noise anyway, so how could that be harmful??? Who knows. Thanks for the infor on Twin to Twin transfusion. I didn't know that. Didn't feel bad before, but strangely feel even better now.

    Issy - Welcome back. I hope your bb's aren't causing you too much discomfort and I hope you are feeling on top of the world soon. Maybe you MCed and then Oed and now your UTD again??

    Vanaithi - pushing it is then when/if (hopefully not) AF comes. Seems you've proven pushing works!!

    AFM - Had a FULL day of painting (other than my breakfast/BB break and my lunch/BB break). Ready for a nice dinner soon followed by some. But the footy is on and so is the tennis. I'm not sure of the times, so I hope I can squeeze a bit in there somewhere. Remember, we don't want him suspecting anything. Really hoping that tonights the night and this one STICKS!! I'll keep you posted.

    Hugs to everyone!!

    xxx

  4. #148

    Join Date
    May 2008
    Location
    North side, Brisbane
    Posts
    754

    Default

    Brisbane meet up soon. Anyone interested??

  5. #149

    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Location
    Dunedin New zealand
    Posts
    1,547

    Default

    hi ruthie and welcome , you have come to a great place for support.

  6. #150

    Default

    hey issy

    yep we have been dancing, but for some reason i am really relaxed about everything now. went to see lily liu last week for herbs and she was so wonderful. there were heaps of good things i got out of it but the main thing is that she is going to do all my worrying and planning for me so i don't have to anymore. she has put us on a sex schedule but its basically every second day for the fertile week (nothing special that we don't already know about) we're about halfway through now and it has been the first sort of fertile time since january that i haven't been worrying about any of it- no temping, no stressing about bd'ing etc. i feel like it won't happen this month but i sort of feel like it will happen sometime in the next few months, and until then i am just concentrating on being healthy with diet and exercise, and just being happy with DH. it is really good with us at the moment, we are sort of like lovesick teenagers again (sorry if this is waaayy too mushy!) but we are really enjoying being together and not just waiting for a baby like it was starting to be like before a bit.

    anyway i have totally waffled on about myself- am just in a really good, happy head space and i have felt really inspired and positive since i saw lily last week.

    am really keen for you to do another test just to see, but of course its up to you. i really hope the fs can give you some answers soon.

    will be back to catch up with everyone tomorrow.

    xo

  7. #151

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    Brisbane
    Posts
    185

    Default

    Issy - have you done any BDing over the past few weeks?? Maybe you hacve concieved on a lunar cycle. ie the moon was in the same position as when you were born?? Apparently this causes spontaneous Ov despite it not being due.
    you are UTD

    Keep us up to date

  8. #152

    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    South Australia
    Posts
    522

    Default

    pbstar - its so good to hear you being so positive...thats a huge part of being successful in my opinion. Sometimes the pressure of ttc can really get us all down and its so good to hear that your'e just relaxing and taking everything as it comes....no pressure, but I have a good feeling that your BFP is just around the corner I hope the natural therapy works for you hun

    Easha - Yes, according to my lunar cycle, I would have ov on the 22nd June, which would perfectly explain the sore bb's now. But I thought since I had a chem pg last cycle, that it would put me out of whack (mentrual and lunar cycle not in sync with eachother). I m/c not long before the 22nd of June, so I didnt expect that I would have ov so soon. But im pretty sure my sore bb's are a tell tale sign. Who knows hey? I guess only time will tell, and sort it out too.

    Joey - Hi, I wish i was UTD, but doubtful since I only m/c under 2 weeks ago. Would be nice though....scary...but nice! Again, time will tell I guess, I just have to be patient and ride out the bumps....and there are a few of them

    Well all, thats it for me tonight... and to all.

    Issy

  9. #153

    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Caroline Springs
    Posts
    2,341

    Default

    Just a quick message to Issy - Any chance you might have miscarried a twin? I don't know how it works, but I'm sure I've heard of people that have had that happen where one twin miscarries and the other is fine... Maybe another pg test to put you mind at rest might be a good idea?

    Need to go and try to get DH in the mood for some BD. I think it's going to be hard work tonight, and I hate being the instigator, lol tmi!!!

  10. #154

    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    South Australia
    Posts
    522

    Default

    Hi krystielove - I dont know how that all works either I have to admit. But it does seem strange that my bb's stopped hurting for a week then started again???? Im almost 100% positive that I just ov early and now im about 10 away from next af, thats usually how long i have the sore bb's before af arrives. I hope she doesnt turn up though

    GL with the BD fest - go catch that eggie girl Im sure you can get DH in the mood - try Jen's adivce.... nudge nudge!!!!

    I think I might test just to make sure there is no hcg left in my system and to put my mind at rest...

    BTW - If anyone is interested, i finally figured out how to upload photos in the member gallery, so you can check them out there if you like....my precious ds is on there too.

    Issy

  11. #155

    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    Location
    Indiana, USA
    Posts
    400

    Default

    Just a quick good morning ladies! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend...this is a short week...THANK GOODNESS!!!

    Welcome to the new gurlies...hope your stay is short and sweet!

    :goodluck2:



  12. #156

    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    California
    Posts
    1,665

    Default

    Krystie-- re: dialogue in videos! I thought I was the only one that thought that--isn't it funny how fake they make it all sound--it just sounds like they're reading it off a script! Anyhow, that's why you keep the volume down--it's the visual that you need, the words don't even count! In fact, you could just fast forward through all that BS and get right to the good stuff! Or better yet, find one that begins with the good stuff! There are some free internet sites, you know... and I'm sure the handcuffs will still come in handy!
    Ooh, it's just barely after midnight there, does that mean I'll actually get to "talk" to you this a.m. instead of just reading your posts later? Unless it's the weekend, I don't usually get your posts until the morning (for me) after you've typed it. at not wanting to instigate the BD'ing--I swear, it's like we're twins, we're so much alike!
    Hope you enjoyed the Melb. meet-up, what did your DSS's think about it all?


    mollycat--Ooh, I see a nice coverline on your chart that wasn't there last time I looked! Poor, broken DH--what a trooper! Most men are either complaining that they're not getting it enough, while our men complain they're getting it too much--who woulda thunk it? lol...


    joey--I never really noticed any type of O pain until after my m/c when I was looking for it! In my case it tends to be on the left (though I've heard it can alternate sides) and is like a pinching or stabbing sharp pain (not painful-sharp, just sharp) in my left ovary. It's nothing like AF pains! Fingers are crossed you found some time to work in the BD'ing!!


    Easha--Serving you a nice helping of per your request! Good luck with O this week. Sounds great that you're so positive this will be the month! Let's say it together: you will get pg this month!


    WTH--Forget the toilet paper--you just need a laptop to keep in your bathroom! I have a laptop, but I must say even I'm not so addicted that I would take it into the loo with me! It is a good idea, though, isn't it? lol... you never know, that just may end up on the addicted list one of these days!


    Ruthie--Your symptoms sound really promising! I'm crossing my fingers that you get a BFP on Friday!! I've done lots of research on early pg'cy symptoms--only problem is I seem to get most of the same symptoms due to AF, so it's really hard to determine the difference! Like you I have a hard time remembering how it was with my DS's because it just happened--and no m/s with either of them, so if I get m/s with my next pg'cy, it will be a shocker to my system!


    Toccara--I'm sure your friend will understand your need to keep some distance right now! I've had plenty of time to grieve, and I still don't think I could handle it! Sending lots of


    issy--Oh, you and jenushka could be twins you look so much alike! You and DH sure do make beautiful babies--your DS's eyes are beautiful! I'm so glad everyone's uploading photos lately, it's so nice to have a face that goes along with the name! My only complaint is that everyone else looks so good in their pics, it's making me look plain and frumpy! lol...
    You are having a strange cycle, aren't you? I agree, you should just test and see... it's good news!


    Van--Glad to hear AF has left the building. Must have been all that pushing that made her leave so quick--think I'll give that one a try! Hey, better to be cold-lunged than cold-hearted! lol... Praying your herbs do the trick!


    bettyboop--How's it going my pregger friend?


    Hey smilanatu--Grrr, it's Monday! Like you said, at least it's a short week. Got any plans for the 4th? How's poor, broken, Lee doing today? Did he survive the BDful weekend? lol...

  13. #157

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    New Jersey, USA
    Posts
    192

    Default Hi Girlies...

    Sorry if I might write a bit later I'm in New Jersey USA and I dunno what the time differences might be for each one of you..

    Thank you all for your sweet words. I see many of you are charting.. that didn;t work for me as one my cycles are too irregular due to the PCOs and they are super long ranging from 38 days - 150+
    So charting never has worked for me. I wish all of you LOADS of ***baby dust****
    I hope I hear BFP news ASAP!! I will rejoice with you. It's really amazing to find women who understand what I go through and ..sometimes I think am I losing my mind?.. I check so much stuff to TTC..then so many have unprotected sex only once and BAM preggo!!..It's like a roller coaster of emotions. But I'm strong and a baby is worth all my hard work!!

    Tocarra- thank you so much. People might think that once I get a BFP that will be it..no way that's just the beginning of my worries cuz my 2 last m/c were one year apart but one after the other. So my chances of that happening again are pretty high and it's scary !

    KrystieLove-Thank you.. I pray for a little girl too.. I get all sappy when I go to a store and see the cutest princess dresses!!.. I can't wait to have a little girl!! Good luck momma!!:goodluck2:
    Yeah I couldn't believe I was called selfish for wanting more kids.. its easy for the person who said it cuz she has 4 and gets pregnant so easy..she is preggo with her 5th.
    She has never had a miscarriage either. What would she know? (She is my cousin)

    TinaK- Thank you. I'm trying to figure out how to post pics here so you guys can see some pics of my preemie and him now... I dunno how to do it?..Can you tell me how?. (I'm very new here)
    again thank you momma.. I feel so great to have met you guys!

    Vanaithy- Thank you girly!! oh I hope it ends soon!!..LOL
    I have a few symptoms but it could also be PMS whish has always confused me. in 3 more days I will be officially late... I will test this Friday.. in hopes I get a BFP!!.. (I was on fertility meds this month and am very hopeful they worked) Those meds are the same ones I conceive all my prev. pregnancies. But even if I'm hopeful I'm so scared to be heartbroken by a BFN... uugghhhh
    The only thing is as soon as I see a hint of a BFP I literally have to run to a hospital to get the progesterone shot immediately so I don;t miscarry again. So I just want to catch my next pregnancy on time to save my baby!!

    baby dust donations very appreciated!!.. Am so nervous to test already...

    Sending loads of I hope we all get our miracle babies ASAP!!

    hugs,
    Ruthie

  14. #158

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    New Jersey, USA
    Posts
    192

    Default Thank you

    Thank you BettyBoop!!!
    I'm so excited to get to know all of you!! I hope and pray we all get our miracle babies soon!!

    Good luck momma!!!

  15. #159

    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    California
    Posts
    1,665

    Default

    Hi Ruthie--Glad to see another US gal, there's not too many of us here! It's pretty confusing with the time difference... Aussie time is 15-17 hours ahead of ours (just depends on where they're located), so I spend most of my day waiting for my Aussie mates to wake up! Regarding the pics... ok, I just figured it out the other day, so I'm not sure I'll be very good at explaining how to do it! I think you can just go up to Gallery at top of page, and then you should just be able to click on upload--sorry, I wish I could say for sure, but if I try it now, I'll lose my post! You can also look up pics by screen name in case you're looking for someone inparticular. Hope that helps, would love to see some pics of your miracle!

  16. #160

    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    California
    Posts
    1,665

    Default

    You know you're addicted to BB when:

    1. You sign a 2-year contract and pay $60 more per month just to have wireless internet service for a 5 day camping trip!

    2. Your significant other walks in on you checking the position of your cervix, and actually gets turned on from it!

    3. You resort to becoming an adult film industry advocate in order to keep things alive during those fertile times!

    4. You read, post, and then refresh to read again in case you missed a post while posting!

    5. You dream of being the first to post in the new thread!

    6. You feel like you are wasting urine when you don't pee on a stick!

    7. You see abbreviations in everyday life and try to work out what they mean in the TTC world (eg. DVD must stand for something like "Doing the vjay vjay dance"...)

    8. When you get excited about choosing a new ticker....oh the choices!!!!!

    9. You actually think in emoticons and abbreviations...and occasionally call your husband DH....and he says, "what the hell did you call me????".

    10. And the biggest one of all....DH actually asks if it was a light or dark "BFP" (not positive test) and whether or not you used "FMU" to test!!!! (all in abbreviations...)

    11. When getting a coverline makes you so happy, you feel as though you won the lottery!

    12. When you look forward to going to bed just so you can wake up in the morning and add a new temp!

    13. You say you are taking a break from bb and then spend 24 hours trying to do anything but log on, including cleaning, washing, ironing, shopping, all the while saying to yourself don't do it don't do it don't do it before finally breaking down and getting your bb fix...

    14. You drag yourself out of bed at 6 am every morning even though you're still tired, just to have "quiet alone time" on BB while the kids are still sleeping!

    15. You get the butterflies while logging on to read posts!

    16. You keep your computer on all day long so you know as soon as someone has made a post!

    17. You know you are addicted to BB when you go to put the date on something and you end up writing 9 DPO!

    18. You're whole day is ruined just because you can't log onto BB, and you feel like you're going to go insane without it!

    19. You climb a slide and drive up the tallest hills at your camp spot trying to find a signal so your laptop will work!

    20. You bring your laptop to the drive-in with you so you can check on posts in between shows!

    21. You check your chart at least every half hour, because what if somehow it changed?

    22. You wake up at 2:30 in the morning to use the toilet, and contemplate logging on to see if there's any good news that can't wait until morning!

    23. You wake up at 3 a.m. and have to pee so bad, but you know you'll wake up at 6, so you hold it for three more hours so that you don't ruin your temp!

    24. You toss and turn every morning waiting for it to be time to take your temp!

    25. When DH comments that he's your family, not the girls on BB! (What does he know, anyway? lol...)

    26. You sign on from your mobile phone to let off some steam!

    27. You post 3 times in a row, and twice was just because you ran out of smilies!!!

    28. When you're reading and typing posts in your dreams!

    29. When sitting on the couch watching TV, you position yourself so that you can see the computer screen so you know as soon as a message pops up! Not only that, but you end up watching the computer screen more than the TV!




    OMG, girls, DF pointed out that I made up most of these (15)!! How the heck did he know???

  17. #161

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    New Jersey, USA
    Posts
    192

    Default Hi Jen805

    Jen805 Thank you girly!! I'm in New Jersey. Where are you?... wow I didn't know Aussie time was 15 hrs apart?..WOW!!..LOL

    I have most of my pics in photobucket.com and they have codes ..I tried putting the HTML code here but saw it didn't work.... **sigh** I'm so BellyBelly challenged....

    If I get your "image thingys on the bottom of your post..You have 4 angels in heaven?... I need to learn a lot here..but wow!! I have 2 and It's still hard to remember my ordeal @ the hospital when I was having my angel babies.

    It was awful. The docs seemed to answer my questions with more questions. And I was in terrible pain physically and emotionally. I wanted those babies so bad.

    I'm testing on Friday..am so nervouse already...LOL

    Let's see what happens then.. I underwent fertility drugs this month..I got a ++ OPK too so I baby danced everyday the week following that + OPK. I hope I got that eggie!!

    Hugs and I look forward to knowing more about you!!

  18. #162

    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    New Jersey, USA
    Posts
    192

    Default ok let's see if this worked..

    Here are some pics..

    My preemie miracle baby conceived on fertility drugs..he was 1 day old here (4 and a half pounds) (I was so swollen sorry)




    3 days old going home


    Proud daddy


    3 months old and like 15 pounds later..LOL


    And here he is now 3 yrs later..






    this is my fam girlies..


Page 9 of 11 FirstFirst ... 7891011 LastLast

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •