Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #3 May '08

**jen805** · May 21st, 2008, 12:09 AM

plc--Oh, your new ticker is so cute! I just have to say again that I'm so happy for you, and that you got to see your sticky little bub!

pbstar--So glad to hear your cycle has been so quick this go-around. I think it definitely helps when you aren't putting that pressure on yourself, you just kinda have to kick back and go along for the ride! Good luck with O, and hope you get your BFP!

Acria--Wish I could help you with your O questions, unfortunately I need those questions answered, as well! I don't know if I've already O'ed, or what, but I'm CD 21--last month I O'ed on CD16, and I had watery CM to prove it. This month, nothing. So I guess technically I'm probably in the TWW, because AF due on 31st. We've also BD'd at the right times, and plenty of times, but still can't help but worry, especially with O symptoms going AWOL, that we missed it again this month. I think we're both just worrying unnecessarily! Big hug for you!

Mel--Please hang around! We love having you in this group, and we'd miss you too much! lol... I'm laughing at the mental image I have of you running around the house with your HPT dripping all over your hand! Congrats again, hun, I'm so happy for you!

megsmum--Looks like you're in the same boat as Acria and myself! So confusing how cycles can change from month to month! Hope you get things figured out, I'm crossing my fingers for you!

mollycat--I've heard of it before, but can't remember what "breakthrough bleeding" is? Looks like O symptoms have gone MIA for quite a few of us! Hope your test on Thursday shows that you've O'ed!

So are the builders all finished with your extensions? Should be just about done, right? At least you have something that's keeping you busy, hope it helps take your mind off things!

Canary--Wishing you beautiful pg symptoms, and lots of 'em! I'm sure your bb's will happily surprise and shock your DH at how quick they can grow! I'm fairly small, as well, lol... in fact I have to buy my bras in the girls section instead of the women's section!

LizJessie--Have you POAS again?

AF falls off the face of the earth, and you get your BFP!

KrystieLove--

I like your visual of drunken frat

partying away!

party on! Glad to see you're feeling so positive about your BT results. It took more than 3 weeks for mine to get back down, and it's really tough when that's the only thing holding you back from TTC! Good luck, hun! Huge cyberhug coming right at you!

Angel Babies--Sounds like you had a great Mother's day! What a thoughtful gift you got from your boys, and how sweet that they included your angel baby's charms! Hope we continue to hear from you! Take care, hun, and big hugs coming your way!

Magda--Haven't heard from you in quite a while. I'm

things are ok with you, and you're always in my thoughts!

Gotta get the kids up for school, so I'll check back in a little later. Huge hugs and hi's to everyone else!

**smilanatu** · May 21st, 2008, 01:18 AM

Morning ladies...plc I love the ticker!!! I am so pleased you were able to get some relief with your u/s...take it easy and enjoy your pregnancy!!!

Mel A...LOL at you and the drippy HPT!!!

Canary...I'm betting in another month you'll be having so many "symptoms" you'll be sorry you wanted them...LOL...relax...enjoy!

Angel Babies...don't be discouraged...your signature says your only as old as you feel...I am so glad your Mother's Day was wonderful for you!!! Don't you dare leave us...we need your insight and wisdom around here!!!

Ladies...need more

**Katiegirl** · May 22nd, 2008, 08:39 AM

AngelBabies - I have only just read your post, and I wanted to say thank you for all the comforting and humourous words you have offered. You will be greatly missed. As they say, you never know what is around the corner, but I certainly hope that you find happiness. It sounds like you have 2 very special boys and the bracelet they gave you sounds so beautiful. So good luck and take care.

AJC - I will say a prayer for you today. Please look after yourself and remain hopeful that all will be okay. I had some brown spotting early in this preg and I thought the worst, but it turned out to be nothing. My sister told me she has brown spotting with all her pregs (she has 4 children) and she always just thought it was the cervix closing and some old blood left over. So it may be nothing to worry about, and I have been told that brown blood is usually not a concern. So big hug and please let us know how your Ob visit goes. I am going to pray so hard for you today.

PLC - in case I haven't already a big congrats and I hope things go nice and smoothly for you. Try to enjoy the pregnancy, even though it is hard when we are all worriers! I have turned into a crazy lady!

Hi to everyone else - I find it so hard to keep up with this thread, but know I am thinking of you all and everyone time I see a new BFP (or in this case about 6!) I get a deep sense of happiness. Good luck to all those on the TWW, I hope it flies by and brings good news. To all those who AF has come to visit, may this be the last time for a while.

Have a great day.

**Acria** · May 22nd, 2008, 11:01 AM

AJC - Keeping you in my thoughts. I know how worrying it is when you see something like that showing up, particularly when it's happened before. Hoping that everything turns out okay for you, look after yourself.

Angelbabies - you're just such a sweetheart

THat's all I can say.

Where There's Hope - Happy Birthday! Hope it's fantastic!

Mollycat - so glad to know your extension got done, must be a huge relief to be finished, and how exciting to have a lovely new room!

Kirsty - your frat party spermies gave ma good giggle, right when I needed it, so thankyou

And I was reminded of it even more when DH came home last night rather tipsy! Here's hoping his 'boys' could find their way easier than he could last night.

AFM - well I'm trying not to read too much into it..only 4DPO..but my nipples hurt. I know it's too early really (little voice in my head says 'unless you ovulated earlier than you thought..'), but maybe..my body remembers what to do from last time, lol. The things we try to tell ourselves... But yes, nipple tenderness and tiredness were my biggest symptoms last time..so I'm just going to content myself that my nipples are sore..for some reason, and hope it's the reason I want!

I also have a little odd spot on my leg that has been there for months and I've almost convinced myself it's cancer..so off to the skin clinic I go -_-. More than likely a confused follicle from being waxed.

Hoping everyone's having a good day.

Lisa xx

**AJC** · May 22nd, 2008, 11:33 AM

Well I feel like a drama queen atm anyway. Iam holding out ok so decided to log on.

Ok spoke to ob. hcg when BT was taken @ 4wk 3dy is 1024. I know it's not the actual level but the way it's doubling that matters. He's booked me in for a scan on 3 Jun, so hopefully spotting will stay away (none so far today) and we'll se a little hb.

Feel a little calmer but am now a mad woman checking my knickers every opportunity I can get. And I thought I was going to relax this time - tuh. Should have known better!

Hugs and babydust to all. you guys are my rock at the moment (besides DH).

plc & Kategirl - thanks for the little prayer. I said one myself this morn.

for you both.

Jodsan - af would have been due around Sat - that's why I waited until then to POAS. So I guess she would still be around if she had come.

Acria - i'm sure the thing on your leg is nothing but good idea to get it checked out. Hope the tww flies and you get your BFP!!!

bbl for more pesonals......

**Acria** · May 22nd, 2008, 11:47 AM

AJC - got my fingers crossed for you girl. No more spotting is definitely good news. Maybe it was just AF cranky at not being able to come back to 8 months, and so was giving you a last bit of horror before she disappears

I just rang the skin clinic and I can't get an appointment with them until the end of June, and they only do full body skin checks, which are very good, but I had one done 8 months ago and was told I didn't need another one for a year, and it's really just this one spot I want checked. It's also $120. If I just wait until I fall pg and mention it when I go to the GP, it's about $20

I think I'll wait.... still worried though.

Lisa xx

**pbstar** · May 22nd, 2008, 12:27 PM

hi girls

no time for personals, will be back later

Just wanted to let you know AJC that i am saying lots of

and sending mountains of

i know it is hard but please try to relax and know we are all here for you

**jen805** · May 22nd, 2008, 01:45 PM

AJC--Glad to hear the spotting seems to have stopped, praying it stays that way! I agree with Acria, I think AF is just being ****y, and giving you one last scare. Will still continue to pray all goes well! Stay positive, hun, and have faith that this one's staying put!