BekZ - try not to worry about the spotting (although I know that is easier said than done!), it is probably nothing to worry about, and I reckon that you are def pg and it is not just leftover HCG, as you wouldn't have that much HCG left after this long, and your chart clearly showed O, so you must be pg! I am thinking of you and I sure it will all be ok.
Alex - what a nightmare weekend, you poor thing. The hosp bit really is so traumatic, and it sounds like you had a pretty terrible experience there. I am glad you had a good registrar, and I am with you on the stats - sometimes it sounds so matter of fact, but in a way it is reassuring to know how likely m/c is, and kind of gives you hope that eventually, it has to work out if you just keep trying! I am glad to hear that you are feeling more positive today, that really is a lot to go through.
Jen - temping can be pretty confusing at first. Can you link your chart so we can have a squizz? I think it actually doesn't work for some women, so don't be too worried, but I know it is frustrating.
Leyla & Tinsel - thanks for you kind words. It really is great knowing that I can come here and talk to you girls when no one else understands.
SP - how are you going? I hope you are having a good time away. I reckon I would TTC too if I had to wait for an OB appointment, esp with long cycles. Waiting is the hardest thing when going through this.
Satya - how are you going today?
Well, I am kind of sorting things out with my friend. I ended up telling her how I felt and she has just replied and apologised for not telling me and said that she wanted a pg more for me than for her (she already has 2 girls) and she was hoping I would tell her I was pg and then she could tell me she was too. When my DH told her DH about what had happened with us, she felt she couldn't tell me as she thought she would be rubbing it in my face. She said that she just wants me to not be unhappy anymore and that she will share everything with me for now on . I don't want her to feel she has to tell me things -it is up to her, I am just upset that had lied to me so many times. She could have just not said anything, I knew she was doing a pg test three wks ago, as I gave her some of my tests, and I would never had asked the outcome - it is up to her. But outright lying is different and harder for me to accept. Anyway, she has asked me to come for dinner tonight and I am sure all will be fine. I just wish things didn't have to be so hard. It would so lovely to go through pg together, but I guess yet again it was just not meant to be.
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