Hi everyone

Heybacko - what a traumatic few days you've had. I hope all is well with you now. It's really scary TTC in your 40's isn't it? The odds aren't so great but plenty of women our age have no problems..... here's hoping that's you and I the next time we get lucky.

Bekz - I hope everything is OK with you. We all know how common spotting is early on so hopefully that is all it is.

Jenjams - I've heard that your temp can be affected by things like viruses and headaches as well so it can be difficult to determine O by that alone. I use maybebaby and have found that to be very reliable, but it doesn't pin point it to a day if that's what you are after.

Bun - It must have been really difficult for your friend to announce her pg to you. If the shoe were on the other foot how eager would you have been to announce it to her if she were the one having fertility issues? Good friends are hard to come by just forgive her for her lies and understand that she was trying to protect you by doing so. I've been positive again all day today and have managed to discuss my mc with a workmate without any tears so I'm hoping I'm over the hump.

janeo - great to hear the details of the proposal..... I hope you have many happy years together.

las - ignore the psychic - most of those services are manned by people with no psychic ability at all - they are just a huge money making business for dishonest people.



I think I've O'd already. It's 12 days since mc and I thought I should start using my maybebaby tester to see when I may O. I got strong Fernlike structures on Monday (1st day I tested) and again on Tuesday. Today I was back to spots so it looks like I've O'd. I knew my HCG levels had zero'd out from the blood results I got on Sat so I knew it was possible to O but did't expect it that quick - maybe at about 10 days after mc. Lucky for me we've been busy in the bedroom lately so I'm not concerned that I could have missed a chance.

I'm waiting on hormone tests just in case there is a problem of some kind. I won't get the results of these til the Saturday after Easter due to work commitments and the doc being away over Easter. He thinks I may have PCOS. I was tested years ago for this and was found not to have it, and everything is exactly the same as it was back then so I doubt that it is the case. I guess time will tell.