Hi all,

Saltprincess - try and keep positive if you can as hard as that must be.

Bun - I'm sorry to see you've been up and down over the past few days - I hope you are back up there by the time you read this.

Leyla - Sorry AF arrived. When people ask just say "we are working on it". That's what we used to do (when I was married & tried for 8.5 years unsucessfully) and that used to satisfy most people and they very rarely asked further questions.

Herbie - I also go to the loo soon after (after getting several UTI's over the years) and I still conceived after 9 months compared with last time it took 3 years to conceive and I used to lay in bed for ages with my legs up. I don't think it really matters.

Janeo - I hope the next test is +ve.

Sharon - I'll say what I've said to many on other threads in these forums - don't test until your AF is overdue. This way you will not be disappointed with the results of testing too early. I know that's hard but I had to get that way after trying for so long - I found it's the only way to keep your sanity if you end up TTC long term.

Bekz - glad all is well with you.

Welcome Lalla. Sorry for your loss. I've read that your next AF should come between 2 to 6 weeks after m/c. Some women take longer but most are between 2 & 6 weeks. I haven't had mine yet but am hoping it will be soon.... or not if I get a BFP instead.




I had a great but hectic Easter. Have been feeling really positive until today. A workmate and his wife lost their baby yesterday. She was due in just two weeks time. She has a history of m/c but they thought she'd make it this time. I'm not close to this guy at all but the news just hit me for six and bought all the emotional stuff from 3 weeks ago back again. I did not expect to feel so sad about someone elses situation.... very odd indeed. I'm feeling good again now but am not looking forward to the first day that the workmate comes back.... what on earth do you say?????