Good morning!

Bun - how frustrating that they want to test when they think is right. It took me ages to get mine to realise I don't do anything before Day 16 at least! Hang in there hun!

Sharon19270 - Don't lose hope yet! I could definately see that 2nd line on the other test! Hopefully it's just the different test giving the different result. Don't lose hope yet.

Megsmum - yay on your DD using the toilet!! It's such an exciting time, isn't it! DS TT recently and it's such a proud feeling seeing them use the toilet, although a little sad now that my baby is no longer in nappies

Lalla - hi and welcome! I m/c nearly 4 weeks ago too, I'm so sorry for your loss. You would have had the D&C done by now if you needed it. It's just your body slowly returning back to pre-pregnancy state...HTH!

Leyla - thanks We don't over BD as DH has MF...so doing it too much is useless as his best swimmers are in the first one or two goes (sorry, TMI!!). That's why we do ICSI cycles...but we thought we might just get lucky, he's been taking some zinc to try and help! Vitex is great for regulating cycles and I've heard it's great for increasing fertility. I think you can get it from a naturopath. Good luck!

Salt - big hugs sweetie xx You must be so incredibly frustrated I hope this sorts things out once and for all.

Belinda - That is all so true!! When we did a natural FET last year, they kept telling me a faint 2nd line doesn't count, we got to a point where we stopped getting that 2nd line and missed transfer...I was so mad! I think a strong 2nd line should be enough indication!

Jen - good luck with your TWW! Sending you lots of sticky vibes!

Janeo - Good luck with your test!!! And shopping for your ring, it sounds like it will be beautiful!!!

Hi to everyone else

I 'think' I'm technically 8dpo, feeling a bit crampy, so not expecting anything really, we've never concieved without AC so would be crazy for me to think it would happen now. Just thinking about my FS appointment in a couple of weeks and planning for another FET when AF comes in May......and desperately trying to lose a few kilos between now and then!!