Sarah I think you are more than appropriate to help people experiencing a loss. You have been an immense support to me just by acknowledging the feelings that are perfectly normal (but are also the ones that make you feel like you are losing the plot) and making me feel normal about *holding* my Caitlyn. You will be fine but also allow yourself to acknowledge that you may not be the best support for others when you get pregnant again. You know what emotions you experienced while pregnant and when it happens again you may need to step back and be supported rather than supporting.

Keen - I am so sorry your temperature dropped. As you did, I had high hopes this cycle and it is so devastating. Sending you big hugs.

I am having such trouble keeping up at the moment with work and feeling like cr@p so I apologise for no real personals. The other reason is the number of us at the moment - BIG clearout to PAML is needed. They will be running out of participants soon.The flu is still hanging around and it's quite yucky - problem with working with germy patients.

Lisa - we are still (roughly) on cycle together so hang on and we'll send some extra prayers upstairs (and talk to those angel babies of ours quite sternly) about sending us another blessing. We (and many of the others) are quite overdue!!! LOL at you dreaming of me. Maybe you should tell me what I look like in your dream to see how psychic you are

Me - just finished the next session of clomid (and gained a renewed experience of WHY I take the damn things at night) I had to work night shift so the side effects of nausea and hot flushes was not a pleasant thing to be experienced while at work. I'd rather sleep through the yucky bits. I *apparently* looked like cr@p and even got some suggestions as to what my colleagues would do to me if I happened to faint (NOT LIKELY!!!!!!) So ..... ovulation about this time next week and fingers crossed for a positive outcome. Had all the good intentions of the gym out the window - can't stop coughing for long enough to exercise!!!

Hope you all have a lovely weekend