thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss - August 2006 #2

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    *Beccy* Guest

    Michelle ~ I can sympathise with you. I only just this morning complained to DH about how this dreaded flu has been hanging around for over 2 weeks now and I'm getting really sick of it! Yes, it feels like yesterday that I was posting in here! Time is flying along for me. I've had so many birthday's, get-togethers and things to do this year that the months have just flown by.
    I have my fingers crossed for you (and I'm telling the higher entity's) that this is your month! I look forward to hearing about your BFP !! Take care of yourself!

    Beccy

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    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Qingdao, China
    1,196

    Hey Ladies,

    Michelle - So sorry to hear you've been ill. I guess you're kinda prone to getting things because you have patients coughing over you all day long. Good idea about calling in sick and spending the day on the couch. I'm sooooooooo that this is going to be YOUR month, my god you deserve it!

    Keen - I'm so sorry that AF has arrived. Dammit, I'm sick of being polite, I'm really jacked off that Mother Nature isn't playing the game with you ladies!!!!!!!

    Sarah - What an honour being asked to be involved in Sids N Kids. I really think you're the right person for the job, you're kind, understanding, compassionate and easy to talk to. You'll be great at it and the training will only cement that. It wouldn't be easy, I have never known anybody who's lost a child to Sids so I can't even begin to imagine how traumatic it is KWIM?

    Saph - Wow, 12DPO. That's exciting, when are you going to test?

    Kelly - All of my pg's have happened quite easily too and that's been amazing as I have had a bad case of PCOS and it took my sister 7 years of fertility treatment for her to have my niece. I often feel bad that it's happened so easily for me, but it has happened 3 times, so that's nothing to say it's not going to be the same for you. There is nothing wrong with being envious of friends who may fall pg quickly, you wouldn't be human if you didn't have those 'why not me' feelings. It's just that you're honest enough to say them! Of course you wouldn't go telling those friends who are ttc'ing but it's human for you to think that! Wishing you lots of luck sweetness!

    Me - Well I have been spotting again. It happened last night and it was RED blood. Not even enough to get on my clothes, but it was there and it has gone. There has been nothing today or any overnight, so that's a good sign. I have been worried sick, I barely slept a wink last night. I have to have a BT tomorrow anyway so I'm going to call into the Dr surgery and see the m/w and get her to check me out. I do get the doppler tomorrow but I"m told it can be very tricky to find so early, so I'd prefer a little scan in the surgery. I can't see why they won't. I'm so nervous. Part of me thinks it's just another bump in the road but another part of me is screaming 'what if this is it?'. I'll let you all know how I go tomorrow.

    Oh yeah - LISA. How are you or are you passed out from the morning vodka shots? LOL!!!

    Love JAYNE

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    Registered User

    Aug 2005
    sydney, australia
    369

    Oh Keen, so sorry AF reared her ugly head again, I will be praying so hard for ya next cycle!!!

    Jayne, What's going on lovely???? I just tuned in to see you have had some spotting, try not to worry too much as it is probably nothing and that little bean will not grow strong with you stressing out, in turn i know it's easy for me to say don't stress as i would be the same! PM me if you need me and i will check in tomorrow to see how you go, Oh and yes Hayleigh loves the top you sent her, it looks really cute on her thankyou!!

    Big Hi's to everyone else!

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    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    3,715

    Well, I hope everyone has had a wonderful weekend!

    Mine was certainly interesting! Our little nieces were very good, but the younger one, who is four, developed an ear ache at 11.30 last night. So I raced over to friends who live two doors down to get kiddie panadol, which fortunately did the trick! She was fine today, but I was knackered after being up with her for about an hour, and then I couldn't get back to sleep because I was worried that she'd start crying again and I'd miss it! In practice already for motherhood!

    Kellie, I don't think you are an awful friend at all! I have a friend who is two weeks further along than I would have been, and I keep thinking that I'd better be pg before she has her bub or I won't cope at all! Of course, I will be okay, but it will just make a hard time even harder IYKWIM? I feel awful for saying that, but I guess I'm just trying to let you know that it's normal to feel that way (just don't share it with your friends!). And we are all here to help you when you need it.

    Sarah I think you would be great at being the sids contact. I've only been chatting to you for a short time, but you have been so kind and wonderfully sympathetic to my situation. Of course I haven't been through anything so traumatic as losing a child I had lived with and loved, but I think you would be helpful to any family who are grieving. I'm sure it is a daunting prospect, but it would be a lovely thing to be able to help people who are in such need. And I think you will do wonderfully well! BTW do sids have anything that can help you out in the meantime ie booklets and the like?

    Jayne, I'm sure everything is fine with your little bubba. I know it's pointless telling you not to stress, but do try to relax a little. Please let us know how you go. Thinking of you.

    Keen, I know I already posted elsewhere, but I just wanted to say again for you.

    Big hi to everyone else, and have a great Monday(!!!!)