TryingforNo3 - I am also a negative blood group and I was told if you bleed while you are pregnant at ANY stage or if you miscarry then you need an anti-d injection. I was given one after each miscarriage and none were over 12 weeks.
Sunbeam - I am so sorry to hear your news. You are very brave and resilient to pick yourself up the way you have.
Craftymummy - I am the same age as you.
Minimatron - I was told if your levels reached 3 then you were no longer pregnant so a positive test now is a new pregnancy. Congratulations!
Hi Sammyp
I didn't realize you were my age sorry guess you know the score then as ferrals told me last week its not the amount of eggs we have left its the quality and we have to keep trying to catch the good egg I know how hard it is I feel like giving up but I just can't I have to give it a good try. The main thing to remember is its not impossible it can happen at our age we just have to be a bit more patient I think and beleive in ourselves and our bodies, I guess like me you don't want to wait too long before TTC and there is no reason why you should so if you are ready then go for it ! I did as soon as the bleeding stopped but I did have a D&C and it took ages for my cycle to get back and even now its not perfect but any cycle is a cycle all the same so I will not give up and neither must you !
Melisa wow you seem to have done it girl well done I am so happy for you just take it easy and try to relax I know its easier said than done !
Murraycod I am so sorry your finding it hard waiting but try to be positive not too much longer and there is always the chance of a miracle you know ! so keep bdancing and who knows ! not far behind you this cycle so lets enjoy our TWW and if no BFPs then well it will be march by then anyways !
Walk by the river sounds so nice you lucky thing ! I got to rush off in half hour to collect my kids then my work really begins ! had a few hours off as only my youngest at home mon and tues ! can't beleive how quiet this house is when he fell asleep was quite scary for me !
"There are no miracles for those that have no faith in them."
Hey Sarahrach, I think i would be just pregnant, although I have no idea! So maybe 4 or 5 weeks. I made an appointment to see my gp although he is booked out until next Tuesday...8 days to go!!! Which is ok...i think! I might ring tomorrow and see if I can get in with a cancellation!
Crafty-luv your avatar i'm hanging to see what mine is going to look like and with the email i sent you i have downloaded a power point slide show converter program so DH can have a go at converting it tonight.
Murrycod,littleone and kitfaerie did your's work? the one's we sent to our parents worked so i hope your's did.
Thnaks for your support girls
Just got call from FS, levels are down from 3100 to 2000 which means a m/c and no need for ectopic surgery. I am in some way relieved as I really did not want surgery on my tubes and then the constant worry of future ectopics on top of everything else. I think the m/c part just has not hit me yet as I still feel sort of numb, I guess it will feel more real when I start to bleed. Part of me is still feeling quite positive because that's 2 pregnancies from 3 IUIs and I still feel my baby is very close so the universe can get screwed if it thinks I'll give up. I might not be a ranga but I can be just as fiesty!
Ferrals I got Abbies story to open ! but I can't hear any music as yet its probs just me !
What a wonderful way to remember a lovely precious girl thanks for sharing it ! I was in tears as I am sure others will be but I know you had to be very brave to go through it and I admire your courage you are a strong women god bless you and give you your last little bub ! ASAP
About my avatar ( wish I had that bust line in real life ) DH would be smiling !
Crafty-i'm glad you got to see why i am always talking about her and the music playing in the background is eric claptons heaven it is perfect for her anyway i have spent all day emailing it to everyone that has asked to see it i am hopeing to get a link up and running it will be so much easier and i forgot to ask for big boobs in my avatar bummer!
Sunbeam - I am devastated for you, and can't believe you are so strong in getting through this.
SammyP - I'm sad to see you back too, hun. Hard to know about whether recognition of your 2nd angel is a good or bad thing. Glad you are following it up though.
murraycod - wish I could join you out on the sandbar! Sound like the bloody perfect place to be right now! One day, hey?
crafty - cute avvy! Love your hair!
Jahzara - I am testing Wednesday too! I hope at least one of us gets some joy, but ideally both!
Hi to everyone else!
AFM - I have had a lot of symptoms this time round. I thought I wasn't going to ovulate this month, and then BAM! Temp shot up on day 21, luckily we had DTD'd right on time. So I didn't have high hopes, as we'd only BD'd once in the "window" But on Friday arvo I started to feel a little bit icky in the afternoon. And today I was running around with the kids, and had to stop. Not because it was ridiculously hot (34 deg and 80% humi) but because my boobs were too sore! So, yeah, Wednesday is test day, 13DPO and fingers crossed!
Well my strength did not last long. As soon as my housemate got home I feel apart. She has taken tomorrow off work to spend the day with me and is taking good care of me.
Ferals i got the montage, what a beautiful way to remember abbi. I too was in tears it was just so lovely. As craftmummy said you are such an amazingly strong woman and i admire how brave you are. Thanx again for sharing. to everyone in here
Bugger, I can't open it Ferrals!!XX Driving me carzy I tried everything!
Yeah I am an impatient Ranger alright! Waiting 6mnths would tip me over the edge!
I had a JD for you down the river X
Crafty, I like what you wrote about miracles........... It's funny isnt it? When I poas and get a bfn, I hold onto that .0000001% chance i could be still UTD, so why not hold onto that .0000001% it could happen naturally this month!!
Mabey more of a 000000000000000000000000000000000000000000.1% chance, since last month I stimmed my poor ovaries to the max, they are most likely still in shock!! But hey, they aren't called miracles for nothing!
Sunbeam, I am glad you have support at home. Take care of yourself darling X
Snugglybean, your welcome on my Sandbar anytime X! Roll on a BFP Wednesday for us please!!!
Down on the river I was having a bit of a think, it was this time last year I found out that I was pregnant. I hate this. I know I shouldn't think like I am, if it were one of you girls, I would be telling you to pick yourself up and focus on the year ahead, but sometimes taking my own medicine doesn't go down so easy!
(whak) Just slaped the silliness outa me.....
Murrycod- S##t i really wanted you to see it but dont panic DH is working on converting it i know it's a pain but we have the latest version of office and anyone who has a different version the montage wont open it s###ing me i have tried all day i will get it on my profile as soon as DH can change the format and thank's for having a drink for me i am being good this month and staying off it until the witch show's.
eliselouise-thankyou i am glad i can share my girl with my friends.
Murraycod you are allowed to feel sad and remember what should have been or this time last year you need to give yourself permission to do that. I do it all the time but life does go on and all we can do is remember how happy we felt at that moment and know it will be like that again I promise you ! life is so hard at times and without a few set backs then I think we wouldn't be the people we are today ! I pray every night for all my friends on here to have a bfp before me and then for me to have one too as I have had my share and are maybe just being greedy but as long as we all get a bfp then that seems fair !
Ferrals can't get Abbies little face out of my head still very close to tears but its nice to be able to share such a sad time with you THANKS for that !
Just heard my sister delivered a boy a few hours ago so thats it the 2 babies that were due just before me are now here in the world and I feel strange I am really happy they are well but a little sad my own is not arriving in a few weeks but hey I should be over this by now ! but you know how it is !
""Friendship begins because even without words we understand how someone feels.""
Does anyone have any idea why I am getting these damn migrains I had it all day today and yesterday with nausea and blurred vision the same happened last month both times in the middle of my cycle do you think its hormonal or what ? I am sooo worried about these damn blood results don't know if I can handle being told my big M is here !
Sarah.. im so sorry to hear that.. Like i said before i had the same thing.. hang in there sweetie
SammyP.. imso sorry to hear this.. and sorry that you had to come back to this forum
At times i just want to give up with 10 yrs on our belt ttc and then losing our angel baby but i feel the same way i dont think our family is completed yet..
best of luck sweetie.
Tryingfor#3 Welcome to the site and im sorry that you had to be in this forum.. the ladies in here are soo welcoming and sweet you will just fall in love with them all..
My fingers are crossed for you as well.
ferrals Darn it i really thought photobucket would help ya ... Do you mind is i see what you have done for abbi?if not that's ok i understand
Crafymom Oh sweetie i knwo to well about those migranines with my putitary tumor that is all i get is mirgaines and bad headaches it pretty much is with me all day and nite i just got so use to them i can tolerate them to a point..
Hope you feel better..Good Luck on test
Miniatron Dont be sorry sweetie for not being on here and I GOT MY FINGERS CORSSED Kitfarie yeah my house is fun..lol they all keep me busy including my big teddy bear DF..thanks and like u said about m/c again im so scared this will happen to us again.. i got my fingers crossed for you Murraycod~ Go have some fun sweetei you so much deserve it!!.. i'll keep u in my prayers hang in there Snugglebean Good luck sweetie Elsielouise thanks for the baby dust
Jahzara~ Just wanted to say hello..
Ric- Miss seeing you .. hope everything is ok with ya!! T-hopes .same with you hope everythign is ok with ya
for anyone else i forgot best of luck and lots and lost of
AFM.. Just waiting .. i feel pretty good today.. from my ticker today is the day OD.. if i know what im doing with these tickers..lol
I just wish march 1would get here to see if i start or not.. if i dont start by march3 im poas i wanna do it now but honestly i dont want to get the disappointment so imwaiting
Murrycod-it's awful when we go over those types of memories and do the what if's it hurts and is painful and i am here for you to help get through this time
DH has converted Abbi's montage to a different format using a trial program i will email it to you the only thing is it has a blue copyright symbol in the left hand corner we can't remove and Abbi's poem is not as clear to read but it is pretty close to what it normally looks like so you will get the idea of how it looks for now until we find a way to change it without paying for the program.
TTCALC-Of course i don't mind if you have office 2007 version the montage should open no problem PM me your email address and i will sent it to you and i am praying you get to see those magical two lines very soon.
Crafty-My sister get mid cycle migrines to and the doc's are sending her off for some test's they did mention hormone changes could be causeing it but they aren't sure is that normal for you or a recent thing.
AFM- i am soooooo excited my CBFM has shown a peak reading which means i will ov in the next 36 hrs and sure enough i looked at the test lines and the LH line is dark and the estrogen line is light just as the book say's it is suppose to do so DH better come home with some energy tonight then he is off tomorrow and thursday so i will let him rest after thursday.
murraycod - I reckon the anniversary of finding out your were pg is one of the big hurdles, actually, so don't beat yourself up. It's on my list of the Big Three - EDD, then BFP day, then mc day. It's OK to be sad for all of them.
crafty - congrats on your nephew. I'm sure it's a lot of mixed emotions for you, but I bet you're an awesome auntie. Some people treat me really gingerly around babies (even though I'm a childcare worker FFS!) but I think they seem a little bit more miraculous now.
Stupidly hot again today. I am sitting here naked and procrastinating because I can't face getting dressed or the ride to work. Which is particularly dumb because the longer I wait, the hotter it gets!
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guess you know the score then as ferrals told me last week its not the amount of eggs we have left its the quality and we have to keep trying to catch the good egg I know how hard it is I feel like giving up but I just can't I have to give it a good try. The main thing to remember is its not impossible it can happen at our age we just have to be a bit more patient I think and beleive in ourselves and our bodies, I guess like me you don't want to wait too long before TTC and there is no reason why you should so if you are ready then go for it ! I did as soon as the bleeding stopped but I did have a D&C and it took ages for my cycle to get back and even now its not perfect but any cycle is a cycle all the same so I will not give up and neither must you !
She has taken tomorrow off work to spend the day with me and is taking good care of me.
to everyone in here
i wanna do it now but honestly i dont want to get the disappointment so imwaiting
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