Kitfaeria~ Wohooo That is great maybe we will evetually be belly buddies
With you and your DH convo was kinda like mine and DF's He is ready but also scared and doesnt want to talk about it as much either he think it will stress me out and something will happen..
Buit its hard NOT to talk about it but im going to do my best..
Scareypink..i knew someone said at the end of the month could remember who it was..
Sunbeam Keep that attitude girl!!
AFM~ im actually feeling good she isnt killing me to much and honestly i wouldnt care about right now if she was cause i wanted her here..LOL
Im sooo ready for a lil Buckaroo to be running around
hi everyone ,murraycod-your next step sounds like a good one...jilly-good luck for Feb,sorry for your loss..ric-hope things turn around for you soon and you can have some up times...sunbeam-good luck for tomorrow,i think the numbers are going to be great,i admire your attitude...t-hopes-sounds like this lady can really help you ,good luck with it all..kitfairie-loss and ttc is hard on us but also on the ones that love us,they have lost too,sounds like your both doing a good job at being there for each other by keeping communication lines open...kellym-sorry for your losses,hope your next bfp is here soon..dory -you have a lovely way with words..afm-app with ivf specialist coming up-excited but nervous as well,scared he is going to say have to have a lap to confirm tube blockage...
Sunbeam FX for your BT tomorrow. Hope it shows a great increase. Have you POAS again?
Welcome to the newbies and sorry about your losses which lead to joining this wonderful thread.
Matthew's Mum maybe having a lap isn't such a bad thing/idea. I just know that they can change the pressure of the dye going in and depending on whats blocking the tubes they can unblock them. I have also heard of the HSG giving false results. FX you get some good news from your FS.
murraycod sorry to hear that this cycle didn't work. I hope next one does or you get a miracle BFP on your own before hand. I have everything crossed for you.
AFM 2days post O. Have no feeling this cycle and didn't BD close to O. If the egg lived for 24hrs might have been a chance. I am tossing up weather to see the FS in the next month or hold of for another few cycles. I really would like a 2nd opinion however and get some more info on IVF soon seeing as we are looking that way if no BFP in the next 3cycles. Also I just found out the clinic we are using is a visiting clinic which is only there every 2months (for 2weeks) it means we have to fit in with them which will make it end of July at the earliest if we still go through them.
hi ladies
not going to do persies at the moment as in a rush now i have caught up on everything....
I just wanted to say something to murraycod.."You are the most remarkable person i have ever come across.Your are going through such pain at the moment yet you still have the time and consideration to still be thinking of others.Thats highly commendable.Hang in there sweetie, if anyone is deserving, it is you babe..all crossed for HARVEY2" xoxoxoxoxo
Emmy83 maybe you can try other methods of detecting ovulation, then you will be sure you are dtd on the correct days to catch the egg.
some appointments have a long waiting list so can't hurt to start the ball rolling there, and if you get lucky in the next few cycles then cancel. it's a hard decision. and, do you stay with the clinical you are going to and wait till July, or could you find somewhere else where you can get in sooner? good luck in whatever you decide.
Matthew's Mum hope the ivf specialist gives you the answers you want and i hope Emmy83 is right if they do have to do a lap that they can unblock the tube in the process.
TTCALoveChild hope af is still being kind to you
afm, went on a drive yesterday with dh and got lost (this was using sat nav and a map ) and ended up on the bumpiest road i have ever been on, so i really hope i haven't hindered implantation. well not long till i find out.
Hi all welcome newbies sorry your here for the 1st time or returning hope your TTC journey is short and you find lots of support on here as I am sure you will.
Murraycod go for it girl he who dares wins ! Harvey no2 here he comes !
sunbeam hope your bt shows double tomoro hang in there it was a bit early when you tested before so I am sure you will be fine !
SPfairy those darn sat navs can't live with em can't live without em here in WA ! good luck next week testing I will be following you again a few days after !
Thopes you just described my last AF now I don't even think I O this month as my opk sticks didn't show 2 lines so now IM worried what exactly did the chinese lady tell you the problem was ?
Dory matthews mum emmy mummyof4 and ttcalove child HI hope your all well I know Dory wanted an early night thats good she s tired its those hormones ! everyone else good luck with this journey whatever part of the cycle your on !
AFM well just waiting now to see if I get a BFP but not holding out much hope as I don't think I O'd this month thinking maybe its time for a visit to the GP but worried hes just gonna say ( well how old are you ? give up and wait to be a grandma )
Ferrals when you testing I know its this week !
Thanks ladies - its nice to be welcomed. So I've decided to chart this month now. I'm thinking that we will give it a crack again and given I won't be able to 100% date LMP, charting should be able to help the dating from O date instead. That is should we be lucky enough to make anything stick this month.
Craftmummy-tested today of course a BFN AF due tomorrow the ivf screwed my hormones i think as i have no idea if i ovulated or not because i wasnt sure if i felt it as i usually do i am so over this whole process we are fertile and can't get pregnant i have my fertility monitor now so i can start to use it when AF turns up but to be honest i don't know if i want to do this anymore with the chance of our baby being effected with SLO maybe i should just throw in the towel .
crafty - she said that my lining probably wanst all coming out each cycle so even if the sperm does meet the egg, if would probably just attach to this crappy old black stuff and come away. makes total sense. and if we did get a BFP, her thoughts are that we would prob lose again as the baby wouldnt implant properly nor attach. she reckons that she can fix my ccyle and get me to have a good bleed to gt the linming all nice and fluffy. she said she thinks i will be an easy case to fix but my body has been thru a lot and i need to allow it and her time to fix! I hope she is right!!! hope this helps - let me know if you would like to know anymore xx
Emma~ Wish you luck sweetie Scarypink~ she was actually pretty easy on me ( im surprised)
Those sat nav can get u lost i got lost on one..LOL Craftsmom~ My Ferrals~ Sorry sweetie hang in there always next month T-Hopes~ Be that she can fix everything for ya Ric~ were u been? Murray~ Just saying hi sweetie Sunbeam~ How you doing sweetie?
AFM I had af for 4 days.. that is pretty much normal for me even though at times she might be irregular on the time she comes..
DF is doing his sperm testing in morning and doc will get results back tomorrow
so i got to call and get back in to see what she says about them..
I hope its all good.. and if it is then she will work with me and see what is going on why it took so long to conceive..
but in 9 days im jumping on the bike..LOL
I cant wait!!
Hi Anita - Thanks for asking about me sweety...i am here only. And little upset about the fact that, my cycles have gone out of control and i used the digital OPK this month, last month, before that i used normal OPK's (Manual one's) to detect the LH surge, but failed to see one and that made me realise that after my m/c in Aug and D&C procedure, i think i have stopped ovulating or its happening too soon or too late and cycles are either long and short. And my GP did the referral to Gyne 2 weeks ago and i am still waiting on that (after pushing her to do one), she was like i think you are too desperate to fall pregnant, you shld wait...but i had to convince her to refer me...
and in the mean time i searched few specialist in nearby suburbs and decided to book a Gynecologist asap and get a proper check-up of my body, and this thing is stressing me out....so I am going for 2nd opinion and my DH said that i told you its a good idea to see a Dr than to avoid but you never listened.
I am just not in right frame of mind....
Finally AF arrived for you, hope the sperm testing results come good. and all the best for BD....next week i suppose.
Sorry everyone, I will do the detailed post tomorrow..
Each and every member of the forum - look after yourself.
hi ladies..
How are we all
??
Ferals- firstly it is nice to see you around even if it is only for a little bit.. and Please dont give up hope. this TTCAM stuff is hard and it isnt fair and there isnt anything in my life that i have done that is harder emotinoaly well aprt from saying goodbye to Kyarna. But in saying that if you think that you have had it, if you feel truely that this is it you are going to stop, of course we would all support you in that too. i guess that didnt come out right but i hope you know what i mean.
Murraycod- how you going chick? hows you DP? when do you go backt o FS? i am thinking of you chicky!
Ric- i cant believe that your DR told you that you were too desperate. I hate that people can say the most insensitive things at a time like this and think it is ok... but in saying that i am glad that there are people out there who can say them with out knowing how it feels, cause i wouldnt wish this desperate TTC on anyone. It sucks Goos luck with the Gyne
TTCALC- Good luck with the sperm testing, i ho;pe everything is all good and you can get on with the BD'ing !!!
Thopes- that does sound right about your lining, but waiting sucks all the same. I hope it all gets sorted quickly for you!!!
Sarahrach- charting sounds like a good idea, but i really think the Drs have enough tools to date pregnancies now so it should be all good even if you cant chart iykwim. Would be great if you dont even get to see AF for awhile!!!
Craftymum- i am sure the Dr wouldnt say that to you... they might think it tho ROFL but we all know better.!!! No one knows your body better than you and if you think you have it in you that is all that matters!!! Good luck may have a surprise BFP in a week or so!
SPF- Im pretty sure you should be right... think about all thoes people that horse ride and 4X drive before they even know and even after they know that they are pregnant... maybe all thoes bumps might have stuck the bubba in further lol
Mathews mum= sorry a bit out the loop here but what is going on with you chick? you have to have tests or something? i dont know anything about IVF and stuff... i hope you are doing ok tho
everyone else who i know i have missed i am so sorry but i have to run, DS finishes school soon.
AFM- nothing much to report AF is over and done with thank god she was a shocker this month... i guess it was thoes 5 extra days of bbuilt up lining lol butabout a weekish till O i think we are just going to go for it every 2nd night till AF shows up or i get a BFP i just cant handle this timing, testing and seeing 10,000 BFN i cant do it anymore... the whole thing is getting to me. i should be sitting here thinking about all the things i have forgotten for bub and arranging things for when i am in hospital but instead i am here trying wilth all my heart not to loose it, not to go insane and just run away from it all and trying so desperatly to get pregnant. My C section had been booked in for the 22nd of this month... 3 weeks today i should have been holding Kyarna instead i held her 4 months ago, so tiny and still and in 3 weeks i will be testing to see if by some miracle i could be pregnant... i dont think i can take it all...
XOXO
Well reading these posts the last few mins and they all say what I am feeling too so glad its not just me,
Ferrals sorry you got a BFN it sucks and I know what you mean about not being able to carry on I feel the same you feel if your life is on hold all the time waiting for O day then testing day, Bdancing whether you want to or not because you think its the right time and you don't want to miss the right day if its not so you bdance as much as you can, it really sucks and I also feel as if I can't carry on so you are not alone !
I hope everyone else is feeling more positive than me, I feel that my time is coming to an end and I must accept defeat ! should be 35wks pg but instead counting the days every month its no fun at all is it ladies you all know what I mean !
I have to be quick as I'm waiting for a client any minute but I just wanted to let you know my Hcg has gone from 19 to 40 so although it is still low it has doubled in 72 hours the way it is supposed to. Have another test on friday (or earlier if I can't wait that long).
Well, sounds to me as if we need some cheering up in here.............here goes.....
Ferrals, Dont You Even Dare give up hope now!!
Sweety, you have had the grestest gift of having healthy babies before, so why not this time??? Honey, if you had of suffered the greif of loosing your little angel before you had your healthy children, would you have given up then?? No way, it isn't in you to give up, so don't loose that strength I admire in you so much now, I just won't sit by and let you.
I fully understand the aprehension you have, of going through your greif all over again, but you just can't let the unknown stop you at anything. And if you do fall, we will be here to catch you, pick you up and give you strength again and again if that is what it takes for you to have a healthy happy pregnancy with your Darling new Husband.
I also understand that nature plays such a big role, in what we as 'mothers' are trying so desperately hard to acheive, and sometimes mother nature takes it upon herself to take something away from us we have so desperately loved and tried so very hard for, but she can also give, and my darling please focus on succeeding.
But I want you to understand this, everybody here, I, We are here for you every step of the way, so take some strength from us, and go for it. Yes you have everything to loose, but also everything to gain, I promise XXXXX
Crafty, Mummyof4, HubbaB, Thopes, Ric, SPF, Coco and Snugglybugs wherever you are, Sarahrach, Kirsten, Matthew'sMum,CarriePs, AliCat, Charliemarina, KitFaerie, Jahzara, Emmy83, TTCALC, Sunbeam, Cookie, to everyone here, we are obviously not going to get what we want without a fight, so put your boxing gloves on girls XXXXX
Oh, and thank you to all, for the lovely support you have all shown to me XXXXX
Sunbeam, well done my friend XXX
Back later, when you are all smiling!
Last edited by murraycod; February 1st, 2010 at 04:38 PM.
Have been away for the weekend and we are absolutely pooped so this will be short...
I think we need a big in here - looks like everyone is feeling a bit flat.
I hope you are all well though and Sunbeam - I am glad to see your levels are rising !
AFM - Its our 13th Wedding Anniversary today and we can both barely keep our eyes open. Takeaway for tea - couldnt even fathom getting dressed up and going out for a nice meal. Maybe another day...
Today is our cutoff for DTD so DH has been kept quite happy over the last few days.
evening all ,emmy-hope you don't have to wait to july..scarypinkfairy-glad you found your way home..ferrals -sorry about bfn,hope the naturepath can help turn it around for you..craftymummy-you've only got a couple of years on me,come on we can do this...sarahrach-good luck...ttalovechild-hope you feel more comfortable with dr next visit..ric-good idea on seeing specialist...mummyof4-glad af is over for you...sunbeam-great news...murraycod-boxing gloves in check,you too...jahzara-hope your anniversary bought some good luck...afm-seen new fs today,he was very nice,seemed to know his stuff,isn't going to do lap as he said at my age,have to get things started sooner than later,he said hsg i had could be accurate or not in showing tubal blockage,but what it came down to was 14 months ttc and no pregnancy,he also took into account before i suffered losing Matthew i didn't have trouble conceiving,so he has started the ball rolling,need to ring clinic tomorrow for interview app & book dh in for a trial sperm wash,hope that goes okay,last time he had to produce a sample i had to help,men can't trust them to do anything!
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) and ended up on the bumpiest road i have ever been on, so i really hope i haven't hindered implantation. well not long till i find out.
that she can fix everything for ya
Have another test on friday (or earlier if I can't wait that long).
in here - looks like everyone is feeling a bit flat.
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