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thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010

  1. #55
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    YAYAYAYAYAYA Snuggly, so happy for you
    Sending all the to you!!!!

    Ferrals - I hope that egg is on its way! it would be lovely if you caught an egg on Abbi's Birthday......

    Murraycod - So sorry to hear your transfer had to be cancelled, but maybe that sneaky lunchtime BD will land you a BFP

    MissK - I know how you feel about wanting to try now, I have just got first proper AF after D&C and i wish time would go quicker so we can get back to TTC.

    Everyone else, sorry I dont have time to do personals, but i have my fingers crossed for all of you to get the best christmas present ever!!!!! to you all!

    AFM - Not a lot happening with me, Af is surprisingly heavy, which after the D&C i wasnt expecting, I hope she can go and stay with someone else soon!!!!

  2. #56
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    Dec 2009
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    Hi ladies - got this joke today and gave me a giggle so i thought i'd share it!


    How to select a password....

    During a recent password audit at a company, it was found that a
    receptionist was using the following password:

    "MickeyMinniePlutoHueyLouieDeweyDonaldGoofySacrame nto"

    When asked why she had such a long password, she said she was told that
    it had to be at least 8 characters long
    and include at least one capital.

    Hair Color unknown


    Not far off something I would do! Yep - Im a blondie!! hehehehehhe!

    Hope you had a nice day gals! xx
    This 2WW is killing me! HELP! What can I do! Keep lookin in my diary to see how many days till i test!!! Got a sore tummy, maybe a bug and the runs , not helping cause its making me cranky!!!

  3. #57
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    Hey T-hopes, this is some of the "Murphy's Law" approach I took to the last TWW:

    - walk to the shops (I picked one that was quite far) and buy an econo-sized box of tampons
    - also buy (at the shops or online) heaps of HPTs
    - a new non-maternity bra?
    - sign up for a massive sports challenge that occurs after your test date. (I have just been in to the office to try and cancel my entry for the mountain climb this weekend)
    - buy some champagne, your favourite kind, to celebrate the start of your next cycle.

    I did pretty much all of these, and a few more. And now can't use any of them!

  4. #58
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    Nov 2009
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    Congrats Snuggly - that's fabulous news! Awesome :-)

  5. #59
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    Sep 2009
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    Snuggly

    A BFP well I told you so it was the smelling bit that made me think you must be UTD my sense of smell is so great when Im pg so thats what it is girl !
    So I guess now your on cloud 9 well honey you deserve it, we are gonna miss the SVN channel as I am sure it will be resting for a good while then it will be turning BLUE and waiting to let out your bub ! enjoy your pg and keep in touch your sure gonna be missed in here !

    Murraycod well girl you did the deed good on ya I think you should do it again and again just to make certain I am with ferrals whats the chance of all 5 being fertilized maybe 2 or 3 but that would be doable don't you agree ! I said a big family in one hit if you remember last week !

    T hopes looks like snuggly started the ball rolling now its your turn next and then ferrals and murraycod with her triplets and then maybe me wow its sure turning out to be an exciting month in here !

    Goodluck to all in the TWW and
    TO ALL OF US !

  6. #60
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    just poping in to say Congrats SB~ you get to escape!!!
    well done!

    and wish me luck i am going to buy some sticks lol

  7. #61

    Apr 2009
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    Snugglebean-congratz lets hope a few more of us get to follow real soon.

    AFM- i was naughty and used one of my CBFM wee sticks as a opk and the LH line was really dark so my LH has surged while i was at work as this mornings was not so dark so my peak has hit we can BD to our hearts content thank god.

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    Snuggly - WOOOOOHOOOOO!!! That is such FANTASTIC news - congratulations gorgeous woman and you absolutely have to stay and entertain us with more SVN and keep our spirits up and cheer us all one. Yahhh!!!!

    Good luck everyone else waiting in line to test!!

    Possum - so sorry you have had a long road and a difficult one - my goodness, 3 D&Cs, you poor thing. I'm glad you have joined us - it's a crazy lovely bunch in here and everyone has been through something different so there is always someone who understands and we all empathise. Hugs for your EDD.

    MissK - it's been nine weeks tomorrow for me and I remember just how you are feeling now. It is still a very raw time and it will get better. I have days and moments when I feel v. upset still but generally feel like I'm getting through it.

    Hi everyone. I've been told off for all this computer time so will have to keep this brief sorry.

    AFM, wore my new top to work today (started a new job just two days a week for the next three months) and someone asked me if I was pregnant. I teared up straight away and they were so embarrassed and I was embarrassed for it but it just caught me off-guard. Every week as Friday approaches I find myself counting the weeks I would have been.

    Enjoy the Twilight fix MurryCod - nothing like a bit of escapism to distract us! Glad you are feeling OK about the delay.

    Bye now,
    Alice x

  9. #63
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    Snuggly, great news! i am sooo pleased for you! i really hope you have a h&h remaining 8 months!

    t-hopes liked the joke!

    KitFaerie thank goodness your sil is not preggers. i can't believe she would use this as an excuse or for whatever reason, if she was not pregnant. just make sure you keep the pram as a back up...

    ferrals hope the surge means you bd at the correct time. good luck for 2 weeks time.

    murraycod, you are brave... let's see what happens in a few weeks, you might have multiples on the way

    i hope snugglys good news was the start of things to come. i hope things happen in threes.

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    Will I pray for twinnies for you Murraycod? That shouldnt be high risk right? I've seen a few triplets but they have been abit scary so should it be two I'll put in my prayers?

  11. #65

    Apr 2009
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    Wooohoooo!!!!! got my peak on my CBFM this morning we DTD last night and will toninght and tomorrow and then i am in the TWW finally.
    You wont hear from me over the weekend DH and i are going to spend some time togther for Abbi's 1st Bday and then go to my nieces 18th i hope i get through this weekend without any tears i will take murrycods advice and think of it that Abbi is happy and healthy where she is no pain and suffering down here she is in a better place for sick babies Thanks! murrycod.
    Have a fantastic weekend and i will talk monday.

  12. #66
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    Ferrals darling, I pray that his weekend is more of a release for you, than a sad one XX
    You will be in my thaughts tomorrow, and I will be lighting that candle I promised you XXX

    Snugglybean I do hope you feel ahhhh GREAT today!! Do you feel anything?? Because you know how we obsess with all that TMI stuff!!

    THopes, loved the little joke, brightened my day!X
    You an go mad with me XX

    Crafty, yeah I remember what you said, hmmm do you have psycic powers??

    Alice, sprry you had that dreaded question asked, you know it's funny hey, someone asks you a question that makes you feel like crapoli, but you then spend the next 15minutes consoling them, that you are fine. Hmmm. Have a lovely relaxing weekend honey X

    Mildez, scares me a little that we DTD that day, but weirdly excites me also, I thaught about doing the BD last night, but TBH, I am tooooo sore!!
    Seriously feel like an explosive has gone off in my girly bitts area, and am now feeling a little constipated with it all
    And as you know the WORST thing of all??? Having the 5000iu of Pregnyl, I can't even POAS if I so desperately wanted to next week, because it will come up positive no matter what the real answer...sigh...
    Mabey I could go buy a pee stick and pee on it, just for the entertainment of seeing that 2 lines do exist, and they arent just a myth!!!!

    Mummyof4, mabey I could pee on some sticks for you then send them in the mail???!!! They'd be second hand of course, but they will have 2 lines on them! Oh the drugs we take
    Good luck in your tww honey XX

    Bons my first AF after MC was terrible, hope it starts to treat you well for the weekend XX

    Sunbeam, I was very suprised to see that I had 5 follies in therr, like, I knew I was sore, but what a shock. I almost think it is suck a waste of so many good eggs!!
    When I was doing the IUI treatment, oh, awfull, I had so much trouble getting a big follie, as a lot of girls remember here, not 1 month was the same as the last, I think my last IUI was done on day 24 of my cycle, just waiting for a darn follie to grow. Now look!!

    Have a good weekend all XXX

  13. #67
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    Ferrals i hope that this weekend is a calm and peaceful weekend of happy memories of your beautiful girl.
    Murraycod if you have 5... can i have one? lol i can pass on the 2nd hand sticks too, i have my own, pity they only have one line on them.
    Alice- I got asked when i was due the day i went to the hospital to pick up my baby girls ashes... i was actually holding them in my hands when i was asked... i too ran off crying. i think people should mind their business some times

    SPF- where are you at? i know you just posted but you didnt include anything about you!! lol

    AFM- i am so devistaed i POAS and it is a BFN i know i am not due till monday so it could be too early but i have had 3 spots of blood... i think maybe she is coming early. I was so sure ths month was it, super tired and feeling crappy, sore boobs and soooo emotional. It has never taken me so long to get pregnant before i just dont know why we have to be punished twice iykwim. i am stressing a little that i might not get pregnant again and i am sooooo sick of living my life in 2 week blocks. in 10 days it has been 6 months since i found out Kyarna's little heart had stopped beating and then she was born the next day.... 6 months since i have held her and i dont think i am doing all that well with it.... i just want to be able to think about something happy arghhh that is not coming out the way i want it too lol
    anyway i better go got to take the munchin to school!

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    ~mummyof4~ so sorry that the stupid test was a BFN. But your right it could be too early. As for feeling like you have been punished twice I feel exactly the same. Its been 6.5months since I lost my wee little baby (or it was surgical removed as I see it with my fertility) I am grieving for not just the bubs I have lost but my fertility (as my tube was also removed at the time) it really stinks. I am sure it will happen for you soon just unfortunately that hasnt been in the time frame you would expect or want. It can be a real insult to your body to give birth at any gestation so it can take some time to get back to how you were before. I hope thats happened now and your about to get another BFP.

    murraycod I'd be a wee bit excited also. Then if its a BFP you will be very anxious at that first scan counting heads. Hope this it it for you (just not 5) I only say that as I know the risks to you and bubs. But honestly what are the chances of that many? It would have to be a miracle or 5! I so hope this is it. Can you take any herbs or something to help the lining? I dont know much about lining thicknesses so can't help you there or suggest anything.

    CD6 for me. Another 8days just til I have fertility signs.

  15. #69
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    Ferrals have a happy peacful weekend I managed to get through mine so I hope you do too, yay for pos fertility I am wondering if mine is working but its only day 10 for me and all my sticks look the same big fat blue line on the left nothing only the tinyest hint of a line on the left, oh well time will tell maybe this time next week on day 17 for me who knows.

    Murraycod well I do sometimes think of things and then later on they happen just as I imagined so maybe I am a little bit physcic ( cant spell sorry ) I also dream of people no longer here and they normally have a message for me ! so who knows !!!!!!!!!

    Mumof4 I hear you its been 6mnths for me also and its not getting any easier I keep busy with the kids I have at home but there is still that emptyness I feel every morning, I too wonder why we have to be punished but hey we are not alone so lets get through this together and try and be positive,

    Had this link sent to me and found it very interesting I wonder if anyone else will so incase you will I have added it


    I want to get pregnant now: This Little Device Can Boost Your Chance of Getting Pregnant!

    Maybe the answer to me getting UTD

    speak later

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    Ferrals: Good luck for the weekend sweetheart, remember the good! Take deep breaths and think about the future xo (And BD away!)

    Mildez: I find the first 2 weeks really restful, no signs to read til O starts, enjoy the bit of peace that comes before the craziness starts! Really hope this is your month xo

    Mummyof4: Ouch, that sucks. I think it was probably too early, when are you going to test again? I know how it feels when you feel like you have nothing positive to focus on, I'm sure you do though!

    Murraycod: We'll all be waiting anxiously to see what happens over the next 2 or so weeks! Eeee!

    SPF: My mother firmly believes bad things come in three's, so lets hope good things come in three's too! (uh-oh, so if Murraycod gets triplets, is that a good thing or a bad thing??)

    Alice: Gah, that sucks. I still count the weeks, it's like pushing on a bruise, you know it hurts but sometimes you just can't help it. Hmm slightly machochistic! And BOO for the totally clueless person who commented! I had someone ask if I was not long after the D&C, I just said ''Not today".

    AFM Oh sooo crampy! Only tiny bits of EWCM though, really hoping I O soon. Bit worried I'm having annovulatory cycles, but AF was normal length and flow. I could try something completely different and not analyse every single little thing. That could be a fun change, I'm gonna try that. OR I could do a cervix check. Decisions, decisions. Love to everyone on their own crazy journey! xo

  17. #71
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    thanks for the welcome

    Thank you for the warm welcome. It's nice to be in good company even if we'd all rather keep company some place else (ie in a pg forum!)

    I always feel an especial 'tummy pang' when I see someone's loss date is close to mine. Don't know why. There seem to be a few anniversaries and EDDs for people around now. to all.

    Scary Pink Fairy: It's heartening to hear when someone is pg again. Yay for a wriggly scan baby and fingers crossed for the rest of the pg.

    Snugglybean: Congrats! very exciting news. Sticky vibes!

    Ferrals: Thanks for your good wishes re my EDD. You are in my thoughts for your baby's anniversary.

    Murray cod: I don't think i could have resisted either... even with risking a brady bunch event! And I love the idea of POAS just to bask in seeing those two lines...even if they might be drug induced!

    Craftymummy: The waiting is hard isn't it? I can't believe it's been 6 months. The good thing is i didn't know back then that it would be this long and now i've already done it so hopefully we're 6mths closer to the next bub and not long to go! Love your high tech approach too!

    Kitfaerie: Thanks for the welcome. I'm with you: The first two weeks of a cycle are way more relaxing than the last two cos you don't expect any symptoms, results etc.

    Sunbeam: Hope your healing goes quickly and AF comes soon.

    Alice: Hope things look up for you soon and you do some nice things for yourself on the days you aren't at work.

    MathewsMum: yay for another lurker!

    BTW: how do you all do it? I didn't want to leave everyone out but it's hard remembering who said what to whom without scrolling back over the forum lots of times. Any tips??!! Otherwise i'll have to give up my day job! 'lol'


  18. #72
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    Sep 2009
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    Hurray Hurray CONGRATULATIONS SNUGGLY BEAN FOR BFP. GREAT NEWS. WISH YOU A HAPPY AND HEALTHLY PREGNANCY
    I I am so happy for you, sending you alots of
    look after yourself.


    Helloo everyone -
    Esp. MurrayCod, Ferrals, Sarah, Mummyof4, Matthew'sMum, Anita, Craftymummy, T-Hopes, Emmy,Sunbeam, Jahzara, Kristan, Alice and everyone else.
    Sorry I am not posting in the forum due to heavy workload and other life chores, but i am continuously lurking here and checking everyone's health and well being.

    Esp MurrayCod - How are you Darl? Read about your cycle hun, FET got cancelled, but keep on doing the BD, who knows - MIRACLES happens only on planet EARTH. Take care xoxoxx

    CraftyMummy - Thanks for the infor about that Cap, are you planning to use it? let me know, i found it very interesting and comments are all +ve in that website, its also cheap as chips...
    hows your monitoring on that Gizmo going on? all the best deary.

    Ferralssss - how are you? i know its a nice thought to get BFP this cycle, can dedicate that too our little angels. Good luck for BD, hope you get BFP this month.

    Cherished - good thought we all need BFP. I am already in the line.
    possummagic - to the thread and sorry about your loss. Its a good idea to share your sorrows and feelings to someone who understands and are in same boat like yourself.

    Kit - thanks relaxing that you SIL is not preggo and using pregnancy as an excuse to stop an argument is not good. i dont know who ppl come with such bad idea's.

    Sunbeam - how are you? hows things?

    Alice - Goodluck to new job. thats bad that somebody asked you that are you preg.? it hurts, i can understand how you feel. dont worry, you will be there pretty soon.

    Mummyof4 - sorry about negative result on the test. i wish AF stay away from u. take care.

    Anita - how are you? how are you feeling? still exhausted, take some rest and look afteryourself.

    AFM - i am good, got BFN ofcourse, now on cycle day 6, and also looking for another job (change of job and workplace).
    I feel like a labour in my current job(in bank) - heaps on coin lifting, carry loads and loads of coins, which is hurting my back....i would love to get a backache with too much BD but not by lifting coins in the bank.. so decided to look for something else, more relaxing and less stressful....sorry for whinging and whining ladies

    take care all


    once again - Congrats Snuggly for BFP
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