Im not sure what to say.. feeling very sad for some of u ladies Makes me feel stupid for worrying so much about DH not being here next week.. the sadness and frustration im feeling wld be nothing compared to what some of u are feeling. Im so sorry for what ur going thru millyd and ferrals and like kit i cant begin to imagine what it wld feel like ttc for such a long time. I dont think i cld manage emotionally, u are very strong ladies x

Kitfaerie- I knew it! Woohoo!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!! see.. positive thinking!!!! so happy for u.. i think we needed some light in here

And loops - You too! Hopefully its a bfp in the next couple days!! Good luck!!!

AFM- Well im feeling a bit silly now for making such a big deal out of all of this.. like im trying WAY too hard ttc this month. Dh called me before to say he was working out with his boss what cld be done, the plan will probly be that he drives his own car where they will be working and then when im about to O he drives back for a couple days and then goes back to work for the remainder of the time. Is this being ridiculous???! I wld love for this to happen, but im thinking maybe its just not meant to be this hard.. things always seem to go wrong when u push for something too much. Oh i dont know... I get all embarrassed now thinking about DH and his boss talking about it.. coming home for constant bding for 2 days! Would u guys do this or just say goodbye to may and hope for the best in june..??

Another question i have is for anyone that has been on clomid.. what cd do u normally O on? day 14?? When i was on clomid last year i never took any notice when it happened. If i use a OPT from day 9 onwards does it usually give me 24 hrs notice?? I wld hate for DH to race back for it to be all over and done with or too many days early.
Thankyou.

Big hugs to everyone.. as much as this thread can be sad.. it has made me feel so supported and not alone in this big wide world. Thankyou x